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Indecent Arrangements (6)

After Deanna had arbitrarily imposed an additional $4000 payout for Mark, he had trouble coming up with the funds. His time with her meant that his bank account had been mercilessly drained to an uncomfortable level. He had properly budgeted for and paid the original $10000 payout to be released from the enforced chastity. But he couldn’t quickly get out of his current situation as a result of her broken promise.

She opened the front door to see him standing on the other side. He was punctual as usual. Before saying anything, she took the envelope of cash from his hand. “Hello, Mark. You know, if you keep coming to see me, you’ll never be able to buy yourself out of chastity.” She took every opportunity to taunt him.

He had little choice. He had quickly realized she would not return his messages. Their only form of communication was during in-person sessions. They were paid sessions but double her normal rate. It was another arbitrary requirement she imposed. However, the session payments did not go toward the payout. She counted on him coming to see her to plead for leniency, but her motivation was to keep him trapped in her clutches through strategic financial manipulation.

She led the way, walking to the break room, not even bothering to entertain him in one of the playrooms. Two other Mistresses watched as he followed her, snickering and whispering. “That’s the guy,” one said to the other.

“I know what you’re going to ask,” she began. “And the answer will be same as before. You’re just throwing your money away at this point. But I don’t mind.”

“I was hoping you’d reconsider my offer to work for you. I can do…”

She cut him off. “You already know I have two slaves that do everything. You’ve always been just the money slave. You have no other use for me.”

Her words stung him because it had ceased being kinky play.

“Quickly, how long has it been now?” She reached out and tapped his chastity cage behind his pants.

“I’ve lost count, Mistress Deanna,” he admitted, sounding like he completely gave up. He mentally braced himself.

“You lost count?” She paused to let the stark reality sink in for him. “It’s been 12 days,” she reminded him. “And you know the rules if you lose track.”

“No please,” he begged, but he knew it was futile.

“It’s $100 for each day. So add another $1200 to your payout,” she said, getting a sexual charge of energy while watching him descend further into her trap.

He wanted to protest, but he wisely remained silent. He did not want to make it worse for himself.

“Mark, it’s so easy to extract money out of you. Sometimes I think you don’t even want to leave me. And I know I said you can take as long as you want to complete the payout. But I’m going to need regular payments from you.”

“What does that mean?”

Making things up as she spoke, she explained how he would be required to pay her $50 a week to maintain the chastity arrangement. “Consider it a key-holding fee. That should be manageable for you.”

He looked down at the floor. “Does that at least go toward my payout?”

She laughed at his naïve question. “Don’t be silly. And it’s not like you have a choice, but I need to hear you say yes.”

“Why, because that makes it consensual?” he snarkily wondered.

She smirked at his remark. Unclipping the chastity key that was hanging from her bracelet, she walked out of the break room and into the lobby. She proceeded to throw the key across the large lobby. A sharp noise of clanging metal echoed throughout. “Oh, that sounded like it went through the vent grate.” The blood drained from his face. She turned back to face him, waiting for his answer. “There’s only one spare key.”

“Yes,” he said.

Taking sadistic delight in outplaying him yet again, she was already mentally devising new plans to keep him financially bound. She waved the envelope of cash in the air and gestured him to the front door. “We’re done. I’m sure we’ll see each other again soon.”

He proceeded to exit the building after the very expensive and brief conversation.

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 11 hours ago

The “female” Changeling

It always struck me as odd that the Founder played by Salome Jems was called the female Changeling by everyone in-universe.  It’s not like the solids regularly dealt with any other Changeling.  And even if they did, would they call everyone female or male Changeling?

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 2 days ago

Accidental Domme (25)

Steffi: “I finished shopping. Are you still at the salon?”

She walked across the street to the plaza holding multiple bags in her hands.

Mark did not notice his phone vibrating with her incoming text. He was mesmerized while staring at the mirror. He watched the barber sliding the buzzing clippers over the side of his head to trim his hair to the perfect length. After she was done, she applied a bit of lotion to soothe his skin while using the tips of her nails to gently scratch his scalp. The gentle scalp massage nearly put him in a state of semi-hypnosis.

Steffi walked into the salon and spotted him in the chair as the barber brushed his hair. She could not help but to notice her striking appearance: long flowing blonde hair, full shimmery lips, sultry eyes, impossible body curves. She sat down in a chair and watched in fascination and curiosity.

He slipped out of the chair and followed the barber to the front counter to pay.

“$60 please,” she casually said with a smile.

Although he was her regular customer, he never questioned why she always charged him more than the posted price of $50 for men. He didn’t care. He handed her the usual $120. “Thanks again. See you next time.”

Steffi stood up as he walked toward the front door.

“Oh hey, you’re here,” he said, surprised to see her.

“Yes, I got what I needed. I guess you didn’t get my text.”

He pulled out his phone to see the missed notification. “Oh, sorry. I didn’t notice it while having my hair cut.”

She glanced over at the barber cleaning her station. “Yes, I can see why,” she said while switching her glance to him. She wordlessly stared at him waiting for a response.

He realized what was going through her mind. He decided his wisest course of action was to change the subject. “So, what did you get?” he asked as he gestured her to exit the premises. He helped her by taking the shopping bags from her.

As they walked through the plaza, she remained suspicious. “Do you always get your hair cut by that woman?”

“Yes. She knows what I like,” he answered, growing more cautious about where the conversation was headed.

“Mhmm. I’m sure she does.” She knew he would never admit to what she considered to be emotional cheating. “How much did you tip her?”

“I don’t know…like ten bucks. You know, the usual.” He spoke as casually as possible hoping to end what felt like an interrogation.

Looking straight ahead, she knew he was lying. “So, you won’t mind if I check to see how you’re doing on your budget for this week?”

“Steffi, what are you saying? You’re treating me like a kid,” he tried to deflect.

She stopped her stride and turned to face him. She spoke authoritatively without caring if others could hear what she was saying. “No, you’re not a kid. You’re my boyfriend. And you have an allowance, which is still my money. Do you want me to cut your allowance?”

“No,” he meekly replied, hoping the scene would end. He blushed as he was overwhelmed with humiliation.

“How much did you really pay her?” she asked again becoming visibly angry.

“Steffi, please…” he trailed off as he was at a loss for words. He was too embarrassed to admit the amount.

“Give me your wallet,” she calmly ordered with a tone of disappointment.

He handed her his wallet. She opened it and quickly took all the cash and their shared credit cards from it. She handed him back his empty wallet. In an instant, she had zeroed out his budget for the week and perhaps further.

She grabbed his arm and resumed walking. “I don’t want you going to her anymore.”

He stumbled a bit before following her. “Come on, don’t be like this. It’s just a haircut.” He futilely tried to salvage the situation.

“I know someone who’s good,” she said, rejecting his plea. “Don’t worry, you’ll like him.”

*****

Mark sat in the chair as Ray dexterously used scissors to trim his hair. After brushing the loose hair off his neck, he removed the apron indicating they were done.

“Do you need a shampoo?” Ray asked.

“No, I’m good,” Mark said as he stood up.

Steffi approached Mark and looked at his hair. “You look good. I told you Ray was the best.”

“So, that’ll be $40,” Ray said to him.

Mark looked at her expecting her to pay since she still didn’t allow him to carry money.

She feigned confusion. “What? I’m not going to pay.”

Mark was genuinely confused.

She turned to Ray to explain. “It seems my boyfriend is short on cash. Is there anything we can do?” She subtly moved her lips in a suggestive motion.

Ray looked at them both before returning his attention to her. “Maybe there is. Let’s go to the back.”

Mark knew exactly what she was implying. “Steffi, wait. You can’t do this.”

“Oh, I’m not doing anything. Come along,” she said as she grabbed his hand. They followed Ray to the back of the shop. In an isolated corner, Ray turned around.

“Just pay the guy and let’s get out of here,” Mark implored, not understanding why she was making it so difficult. While the store was brightly lit, he felt the ominous sensation of being in a dark alley.

“Go and kneel before him,” she ordered. Mark stood motionless. “I said kneel,” she repeated in a more threatening tone. He hesitantly moved closer to Ray and reluctantly dropped to his knees. She placed her heavy boot on the back of his calves to prevent him from getting up. She then explained what was happening. “Ray is not into women.”

Marked expressed horror as Ray unzipped his pants.

“And that wouldn’t fit inside me anyway,” she observed amusedly. She placed her hand on the back of Mark’s head and nudged him forward. “Come on, you have to pay.” She laughed at his predicament that she had engineered.

In bed, Mark bolted straight up breathing quickly as visions of being sodomized lingered in his mind. Jolted from her sleep, Steffi woke up also.

“What’s wrong?” she asked. “Bad dream?”

He fell back on the pillow. “I’m so sorry,” he rambled as he thought about their argument earlier in the day.

Unsure what he was apologizing for, she nevertheless tried to reassure him. “It’s going to be ok, Mark.”

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 3 days ago

A new collab with my fellow redditor

This morning when I checked my feed, I saw videos of people losing their collective shit over a goddamn watch. People paying hundreds for a good spot in line? Clearly, I’m not a part of that world. The only AP I know is the Associated Press.

But then I realized this was a clever marketing strategy by the companies involved. So, in a shameless attempt at copycat capitalism, I am formally announcing a collaboration between Effective_Bar_6098™ and u/[deleted]™. We will launch our new product/service on May 23. What is it going to be? Find out this Saturday at a popup kiosk at your local mall. If you’re on the west coast, I may personally see you there.

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 4 days ago

A cashmeet that went off the rails

I’m a hard sub. That’s not a bad thing. Some Dommes like that. One Domme in particular was so curious that she agreed to do a cashmeet along with some ballbusting action. We ended up meeting at the park. I gave her the money. She told me to kneel and spread my legs. I knew what was coming. She gave me a swift kick to the balls and she immediately screamed in pain. She had broken her foot because I am so hard. Apparently she was a soft Domme.

I’m now at the ER trying to settle the hospital bill. This was by far my most expensive cashmeet.

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 5 days ago

A New Beginning (20)

Using her right hand, she loosely gripped his cock with her thumb on the tip. With her precisely manicured nail, she tickled his frenulum keeping him in a trancelike state. In her left hand, she held his phone scrolling through a financial app. Focused on the numbers, graphs, and trending analyses, she examined his 401k and IRA accounts. She had full access to all his other accounts, but this was her first time looking at his retirement portfolio.

“I figured you were doing well, but I didn’t realize you have this much,” Steffi remarked.

Mark willingly lay back and surrendered as she continued to manipulate his cock. He knew what she was doing, but he did not care. He did not regret revealing his last piece of financial privacy.

“See, I always knew there was a reason why I picked you,” she blithely said. Getting herself aroused, she silently admitted the truth to herself.

“Are you only with me for my money?” he managed to let out. They both knew it was not a real question. He was continuing their unique style of foreplay.

Briefly looking away from his phone, she looked him in the eyes and spoke very deliberately with a hint of a smile. “You know you could never keep a girl like me without paying for it.” Letting go of his cock, she lay on her back and slightly spread her legs as an invitation. “Fuck me, Mark.”

Without hesitation he lifted himself up, pulled her panties off, and mounted her. She kept looking at his phone as he thrust into her body.

While he was on top, she was directing him and pacing herself for the right moment. She eventually tossed his phone to the side. Nearing a climax, she breathlessly engaged in their special dirty talk. “When you retire, how much will your accounts be worth?”

“I don’t know.” Feeling the erotic charge of being objectified, he was singularly focused on one thing.

“Three million, maybe?” she wondered.

“Yeah, maybe.”

“Faster, Mark.”

He picked up the pace until she became incoherent. “Now?” he asked as the inevitable was coming.

She was lost in the moment, tantalizing herself with the possibilities. “Three and half?” she whimpered.

“Maybe four,” he teased as they found themselves doing a reverse countdown.

“Cum now, Mark…”

Their bodies shuddered as they shared the most intense orgasms of their lives.

*****

They continued to lay in bed long after they had recovered.

“That was…” Mark began and trailed off.

“It was,” Steffi agreed. “Do you want to make it more interesting in the future?”

He looked at her naked body and knew he would not be able to resist whatever she was about to suggest.

“Every time your 401k hits another twenty thousand, you should tell me,” she suggested.

“Yeah, I guess,” he said at the seemingly innocent proposal. “What about your 401k?”

“What about mine?” she asked, genuinely confused. “It’s more fun to play with yours.”

“And what if I lose money?” he asked, not expecting a serious answer.

“It happens,” she said, understanding how these things work. “But if you lose too much, then you may have to sleep in the other room until it recovers.”

“Ok, whatever,” he brushed off her joke.

“We’ll see.”

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 5 days ago

All my sends from 2025

Total $174,268.51
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Feb 24, 2025 $541.42
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Dec 26, 2025 $322.16
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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 6 days ago

Whisper app

For all the flak that Tik Tok gets, there was an even dumber platform for findom.  Did anyone ever try to do findom on Whisper?

I was on that app for an embarrassingly long time before it became unusable.  Actually, that was one of the reasons I came over to Reddit.  I was on it for all kinds of reasons including checking out the findom groups.  And findom on Whisper was a total dumpster fire.  That’s where I discovered the classics like “approach correctly” and “I am your new addiction”.  Though I have to admit, it was a guilty pleasure.  It was like gawking at multiple car crashes on the freeway.

And despite the anonymous nature of that app, I did have a few real-time meets.  And surprisingly all of them actually went well.  There were far more failed meets.  So maybe it’s not the dumbest platform for findom.  As with anywhere else, you just need to look hard for those few diamonds.

Then the Hush app came along as a Whisper-replacement.  And what did I do?  That’s right, I created the first findom group there. 😂 But Hush was nowhere near as fun.

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 6 days ago

The first time I sent $500

I once had an arrangement with a “Domme”.  I put that in quotes because while she was interested in BDSM, she was quite new to it.

She had posted an ad (I miss Craigslist personals) looking for a guy to fund her shopping trips, specifically for fetish attire.  She was very clear in the ad that nothing sexual would be involved.  I answered the ad, told her my expectations, and she was impressed that I actually understood what she was looking for.  Days later we met and did our first shopping trip together.  After that, we went to my place where she modeled the new clothes.  Surprisingly, she broke her own stance on nothing sexual when she came on to me.  I didn’t need that from her, but I didn’t complain.  And this continued for several months.  We mostly went to kink-oriented stores, which while not common was not difficult to find around here.  I was basically funding her aspiration to be a Domme, at least superficially.

One day when I was driving her home, she very cautiously implied she needed money from me.  She said while all the clothes and toys were great, they wouldn’t pay for her classes.  I told her there was no need to beat around the bush and she could be direct with me.  I admitted to her that I was a money slave (that was the term at the time) and what that involves.  She finally revealed she needed $500.  Was she being truthful?  Honestly it didn’t matter to me.  Later that night after we went our separate ways, I sent her $500 via PayPal (in today’s dollars, that’s around $800).  At that point, that was by far the most money I’ve sent in one go.

We met one more time after that.  In retrospect, I think she felt obligated.  After that meeting I called her a few times.  She did answer, but it was clear she was blowing me off.  I got the hint and realized we were done.  I wasn’t mad about all the money I spent on her.  I was pissed that she never returned the CDs and DVDs I loaned her.

I was confused at the time.  We genuinely seemed to enjoy each other’s company.  I told her she could use me for money.  And yes, I would have followed through.  But clearly it was probably all a sham.  And if it was, I would have been fine with it if we continued.  But from my vantage point, she took the $500 and bailed, which seemed like an odd decision if she was just after money.  Since then, I had confided with other kinky women, and they all agreed it was strange.

Years later, I had another shopping arrangement with an actual Domme.  I was telling her about the $500 story and how I was confused by how it ended.  She did not sugarcoat her assessment.  “I think she just dumped your ass,” she said very candidly and laughed at my apparent cluelessness.  That was crass, but I respected it.

Being used and tossed away is a fantasy some subs have.  I hadn’t realized until then that was probably what happened to me.

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 7 days ago

Paying for her shoes

This wasn’t really a findom experience.  I’ll call it a findom-adjacent experience mixed in with my shoe fetish.  This was back when I was relatively new to findom.

I contacted a famous pro Domme and content creator who was well known for her feet.  I had previously bought some of her videos as a random customer.  On her website, she sold personal items including shoes.  However, I didn’t want to be simply a customer.  I asked her to sell me a pair.  It didn’t matter what pair, as she could choose and tell me the price.  And if she was willing, she could initiate contact with me for future purchases.

She was totally up for this arrangement (in retrospect, I may have been chatting with a dude working for her).  She warned me she had hundreds of shoes, and this could get out of control.  After we agreed to this, I made the first purchase.  The payment system on her website was kind of clunky.  I didn’t realize it, but I had paid for shipping twice.  She did inform me that I paid twice for shipping.  But she said since it was my dumb mistake, she was keeping it.

The shoes arrived about a week later.  They were white flipflops that were beat up and had noticeable footprints.  They weren’t my style, but that wasn’t really the point.  It was more about the psychological humiliation of paying for something that was worthless to her.

This went on for about a year.  Every two weeks, she contacted me ordering me to buy another pair.  She would give a brief description of what I would be receiving.  At first, she simply charged me the same amount that was advertised on her website.  Eventually she didn’t bother with the descriptions and just told me to send her money.  In time, she gradually raised the prices until I was paying double the normal price.  After a while it was obvious she was just selling me junky shoes destined for the trash.

A normal fetishist would have just paid the standard price off her website.  But I was willingly being ripped off, or at least the perception of it.  However, after 25 pairs I soberly realized the ridiculous situation long after the novelty had worn off.  So, I told her I needed to stop.  I explained that I started seeing a financial Domme (which was true) and I couldn’t afford our shoe arrangement anymore.  She laughed it off and predicted that I’d be back.

I never went back to her, but I probably should have.  That’s probably my one regret.  It would have been fun to book an IRL session with her and return all her shoes.

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 8 days ago

A New Beginning (19)

Steffi listened to Mark describing a previous relationship with an old girlfriend, but she couldn’t maintain the pretense of interest. Finding a pause in the story, she spoke again. “You’re right, that was boring. Let’s go back to Amanda.” She gave him a wide grin.

He immediately dropped his head a bit in exasperation. “Do we really have to keep talking about her?”

“We can talk about Vicki if you prefer,” she suggested. She very purposefully brought up his crush during college who manipulated him out of a lot of money.

“Alright, what else do you want to know about Amanda?” he sighed.

Finding his sole sugaring experiment fascinating, she resumed dragging him back through his embarrassing memories. “Were you jealous when you realized she had a second sugar daddy?”

“Yes, but I get it,” he somberly remembered.

“Because she was giving him more attention?” she deduced.

He nodded his head.

“Well, that’s what happens when someone’s paying more,” she reasoned, trying to comfort him. “That’s just part of the game.”

“Actually he was less generous,” he admitted, finding no point to embellish the facts.

Ignoring her own insensitivity, she laughed at the ridiculous notion. “Oh, Mark!” While trying to stifle her giggles, she continued. “Did you still enjoy paying her rent even when she wasn’t having sex with you?”

“I wouldn’t say I enjoyed it,” he replied reflectively.

“But you didn’t hate it either,” she added, trying to clarify for him. “If you could magically go back to that time as the person you are now, would you have still broken up with her?”

He didn’t know how to answer the hypothetical question, which told her something.

“There was a time when you gladly paid part of my rent,” she reminded him of his unconditional generosity after they had broken up.

“Yeah, but I didn’t know you were living with Nate at the time,” he tried to reason unconvincingly.

“If you had known, would that have been better for you?” she probed flippantly.

“What are you trying to say, Steffi?”

She placed her hand on his to emphasize the point. “Sometimes I think you prefer to be friendzoned rather than being the actual boyfriend,” she observed, noticing a pattern.

“That’s not true!” he exclaimed defensively.

She stared back at him trying to get him to confess something.

“So what? Are you going to dump me again?” he asked facetiously.

“Do you want me to dump you?” She smiled at him coyly, trying to interpret his ambiguous body language. “I wonder how Nate’s doing.” She picked up her phone and started searching.

“What the…” he leaned toward her in disbelief.

She broke into a hysterical laughter and leaned into him. Letting the silliness subside, she whispered to him, “Admit it, part of you wants that.”

“I’d rather have you,” he replied.

“I know.”

*****

They continued their conversation about their past relationships, but this time with Mark asking the questions.

“When I was paying your guys’ rent, what were you thinking?” he wondered.

“Do you really want to know?” she asked him cautiously.

He nodded his head.

“We didn’t really understand it at first. But when we talked about it, we thought it was hot.”

“It was hot?” he asked in a strangely innocent tone.

“The thought of using you was hot,” she said bluntly with the intention of triggering him. “But…” Her thoughts lingered as she paused. “But after that we didn’t really think about it. It became routine.” She saw the masked disappointment on his face. “You didn’t really think we talked about you all the time?” she wondered patronizingly.

“I’d be disappointed in myself if you didn’t at least scream my name by mistake a few times,” he jokingly dropped the innuendo.

She laughed at him, lightening the mood. They felt grateful that they were finally able to talk about their shared past without the associated trauma.

Feeling more comfortable, she then opened up about another sensitive topic. “You really did hurt me in Vegas,” she confessed. She noticed him starting to instinctively apologize and she interrupted him. “It wasn’t your fault.” They silently recalled that painful night when he finally took a stand and decided to stop being the ex-boyfriend who couldn’t let go.

“Things were so toxic between us back then. We needed that break,” he reasoned with the benefit of hindsight. “But I know it must have been rough for you.”

“It was. And actually, it was all your fault,” she said playfully. “Ever since you, I’ve had certain expectations.”

He looked at her disbelievingly. “What are you talking about? Guys are always simping for you.”

“Yes, but not like you.”

“I’ve always just really wanted to be with you,” he stated the obvious.

“I know.”

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 9 days ago

ATM Malfunction

After entering the code at the front door, she lets herself into his house along with her girl friend.  Upon entering, she sees him across the room.  Surprised at seeing her, he quickly walks up to her.

“$200,” she says as he nears her.

“I can’t today,” he begins to explain.

Before he could continue with his excuse, she quickly knees him in the balls.  Doubling over in pain, he immediately catches a savage punch to the face.  He falls on his back and blacks out.

Her girl friend looks on in shock.

After a few minutes she tries to revive him by kicking the side of his body.  “Wake up,” she repeated a few times until he was able to open his eyes and sit up.  “$200,” she repeated the order.

He reaches into his pocket, pulls out several bills, and hands her the money.

“Let’s go,” she says to her girl friend as they turn around and leave the house.

“That worked?” the girl friend said in disbelief.

“Yeah.  Sometimes you just need to turn it off and back on again.”

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 13 days ago

A guy walks up to the counter with a bottle of tequila and sets it down.  Before the transaction begins, the woman behind the counter asks for his ID.

“I don’t have ID,” he lies.

“I need to see your ID,” she repeats, ignoring his obvious fib.

“Ok, but I don’t want to,” he comes clean.

“Then you can’t purchase this.”

“Why not?  I’m 25.”

“Then show me your ID.”

“I’m 25,” he reiterates in a lower voice.

“It’s not that difficult.  Otherwise, you’re not allowed in here.”

“I don’t want you to see my personal info and sell it to some data broker.  I don’t want to get more junk mail,” he rationalizes.

Trying to salvage the sale, she relents.  “Ok, at least tell me your birthday.”

As he thinks, he rushes for a reply as to not sound suspicious.  “October 10, 2005.”

She smirks at him as her suspicions are confirmed.  “Common Core math, huh?  Please leave.”

He leaves in anger.  “I’m going to tell all my friends about this!”

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 16 days ago

I wrote about this a couple years ago, but I thought I’d revisit the subject.

It seems for the vast majority of people here, findom is transactional in the literal sense.  Subs pay for sessions, both sides negotiate scope of play and prices, and subs usually initiate when they’re horny.  I don’t subscribe to this style of findom.  And really, I view this more as paid femdom.  But this is the reality of the current state of this kink.

I know I’m in the minority, but my view of findom is more utilitarian and service-based.  And that’s the kink.  I’ve always been a service-oriented sub and money is an extension of that.  I’ve never given money because I wanted to get off.  With all the previous Dommes I’ve served, they’ve normally initiated.  They may have demanded money from me because it aroused them, used it as a form of punishment, or they wanted it for other reasons.  Whatever it was, it didn’t really matter to me.  Whenever they’ve initiated, it usually doesn’t coincide with me being horny.  That usually comes later when I’ve had a moment to digest what had happened, reinforcing our dynamic.  I guess I also need to point out that this style can only happen with an already established relationship.  At least I don’t see how it can happen otherwise, unless maybe I’m a community sub.

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 16 days ago

A lot of the comments under the “$40 coffee” post surprised me.  Yes, a $40 coffee is not real.  Yes, it’s exploitative.  Yes, they’re trying to maximize their profit-to-effort ratio.  But isn’t that the point?  And I’ve got news for you.  A lot of these Dommes aren’t actually drinking coffee using these “coffee sends”, so you’re probably being doubly duped.

I’m not debating whether or not artificially jacking up the prices is a good idea.  I’m just saying that findom isn’t necessarily about having a fair exchange.  If you want a fair exchange, there are plenty of content creators out there.

What’s next?  Are we going to start asking Dommes for itemized expense reports?

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 17 days ago

Are there any 80s music aficionados here?  I was thinking of a classic song that was pretty risqué back in the day.  I realized it could be tweaked as a song about relapsing.  I wonder how many people know what I’m talking about.

*****

Relapse, don’t do it

When you want to go to it

Relapse, don’t do it

When you want to cum

Relapse, don’t do it

When you want to suck it, chew it

Relapse, don’t do it

When you want to cum

Cum

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 17 days ago

It’s been over six years since I’ve been an active finsub. It hasn’t really been difficult for me. I still consider findom (at least my old school version of it) a kink of mine and the concept is still hot. But clearly I haven’t been itching to get back into it. Perhaps it’s partly because I’ve gotten a lot of the compulsions and novelty out of my system a long time ago. I’m not sad or happy about it. I just feel neutral about it.

That’s not to say I haven’t been tempted by certain Dommes, because I have. For instance, there’s >!made you look!< and >!made you look again!<. And if you think you can tempt me, you can’t unless you happen to be >!seriously, I’m not saying!<.

To be completely honest, I have purchased a couple gifts during the three years I’ve been on Reddit. One was a birthday present. And to paraphrase an oft-misquoted saying from Freud, sometimes a birthday present is just a birthday present. There was another time, but that wasn’t a send, relapse, or pay to play. That was just me doing the honorable thing and rectifying a misunderstanding.

Will I ever actively get into this again? I don’t know. The rational answer is clear. Or will I end up as an old man with my version of an Anna Nicole Smith? I guess time will tell, but not today.

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 18 days ago

I’ve been hearing about people migrating from X and joining findom Reddit. Not coincidentally, I’ve also been seeing an uptick in clueless behavior from both sides. So just for funsies, here are some of the more egregious faux pas I continually see.

Don’t use modmail to find subs. Doing so is like contacting your company’s IT support department and asking them if they would join you for lunch.

“DM me” is the lamest comment, in my opinion. It’s so lame that I will always remove these comments in PPSG. If you repeatedly ask people to DM you under their posts, you are being silently judged. Why go through the public humiliation? Just DM whoever you want. There’s no need to make a public announcement about it. Even worse than this is “DM me because I can’t DM you.” My guy, if you don’t know how to accumulate karma, then maybe Reddit isn’t for you. Because really, if an old fart like me can navigate Reddit, then anyone can learn. Or maybe she just blocked your ass.

Reddit is more cultured. Nah, I’m just kidding. I’m actually not sure, but that seems to be the perception. Just learn to read the room.

You’re not as sneaky as you think. It’s easy to blend in with the masses here, because the usernames of posts are not always prominently displayed. And when they are, it’s usually something along the lines of u/Foreign-Painter-580. You think I wanted to be EffectiveBar? Yeah ok, I didn’t know what I was doing either, once upon a time. Anyway, there are some smart people here who can see patterns of bait. We see you u/Wonderful-Argument-1513.

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 19 days ago

This isn’t X.  This isn’t even a dick-measuring contest.  This is Reddit.  Following someone or being followed here isn’t an essential part of how Reddit functions.  The option to follow is just there.  So I don’t understand why some people get caught up on this.

 

“Why do some subs have so many followers?”

 

“Why do Dommes follow subs’ accounts?”

 

“Why are lurkers following my account?”

 

Does having so many followers add weight to your phone, to the point where you’re physically unable to walk without a limp?  I’m not a digital expert, but I’m guessing it doesn’t.  Seriously, it’s not a big deal.  And in the realm of findom, it’s a numbers game (pun intended).  Maybe we could all use as many potential connections as we can get.  With all that out of the way, please follow me.

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u/Effective_Bar_6098 — 21 days ago