u/themarzipanbaby

hello!

gibt es hier leute über 23-25, die ab dem wintersemester ihren bachelor in marburg anfangen? ich bin ja doch ein bisschen besorgt, unter den ganzen 18 jährigen keinen anschluss zu finden 🫩 vielleicht könnte man sich ja vernetzen :)

ich selber bin 25, ziehe im oktober nach marburg und bin offen für so ziemlich jede aktivität. abende in kneipen, zusammen musik und kunst machen, wandern, secondhand shoppen, was man halt in der umgebung so findet. ich steh' auf astronomie, videospiele, popkultur, indie-, grunge-, rock und ähnliche musik. ich suche auch immer nach queeren freunden!

i (25f) have been with my SO for 7 years. their family has never asked a single question about me, my life or my family. we‘re currently on vacation, staying with them for 2 weeks.

as we were all chatting in the living room, the topic of having blonde hair as a kid came up. my SO put on airplay and asked me to show my childhood photos because i used to have very light blonde hair back then. i was hesitant - because i already knew to expect a lack of reaction - but did it anyway, swiping and shortly explaining each photo. mind you, i showed like 5 photos. it was just… silence. each time. awkward staring, yawning, sighing.

the second i turn airplay off on my phone, MIL starts connecting her phone and showing photos of basically anything. of herself as a child, her own children, her parents, extended family, the list goes on.

i‘m so embarassed and regret showing them something so vulnerable. i excused myself to head to the bathroom where i‘m hanging out by myself now for a moment.

of course this isn‘t the only or even worst thing they've done so far. MIL has done basically anything in the book. talking about me behind my back, belittling me, sabotaging me… anything you can think of and have probably experienced yourself. it‘s just one of those points where i have to stop and wonder how i got myself here.