u/therese_gemma

I am 30w4d and I have been putting off buying new clothes beyond a couple of tops. However, I'm reaching the point where I probably need to get new skirts and dresses. I only wear skirts and dresses, unless I am going to work out.

The problem is I don't know where to go, because nothing seems to have my size. I used to be a size 24/28 but I don't think I'm that anymore. Currently, at the waist, I'm 52 inches. I tried to measure around the widest part of my hips. The measuring tape only goes up to 60 inches, and the two ends were very much not touching. If I were to guess, I would say my hips at the widest part are at around 64 inches.

Can I get some advice on what to do? I hate clothes shopping online, but I don't think I have any other choice.

I am 17 weeks and am already struggling with back pain. I have a history of back pain and was diagnosed with stenosis of the lower spine years ago. And doctors noted "the beginnings" of arthritis. I lost some weight and got more active and hadn't had bad back pain for months before I got pregnant. But now in the last week, I've noticed my back has become so much more sensitive. I can't bend over too much or really pick up anything heavy without back pain.

I was thinking about getting a belly band even though I am barely showing. However, I am not sure what to buy. I have an apron belly and I've seen a few comments that belly bands aren't helpful for those.

Does anyone have any advice? Any belly band suggestions? For more size context, I am 5'5" and 265ish pounds.