u/thewriter325

The more I watch her videos and the things she says, the more confused and irritated I get.

She has 3 girls, who she’s with 50% of the time. From what I see, Parker has them one week, and she has them the next. (correct me if I’m wrong).

She spends TWO weeks out of the month child free and can do whatever she wants. So tell me why when she has them for the other two weeks, she needs a nanny to watch them?

I’m a mom, and I can not imagine not seeing my little boy for two weeks out of the month (I would miss him terribly), and then when he’s here, I stick him with nanny? She also makes her kids go to bed super early around 6 or 7 so she can have “alone time”

I genuinely feel bad for the kids. Not only do they not get quality time with their mom, but she’s obviously not bonded with them in a maternal way. And then they have to watch her date a married couple and make it her whole personality. That will follow them for the rest of their lives.

It’s all just so heavy.

Give me all your theories!! I wanna see what some of yall think!

How will this end? Where do you see them at in 2 years? Is Aspyn using them for clicks? What do you think we will see on the show?

Tell me alllll your thoughts!

I genuinely have been wondering this for a little bit. How will this change their dynamic?

1. Aspyn is NOT a very maternal person. She sees her kids every other week, and when they are with her she needs a nanny?? I can’t imagine having a nanny, PLUS the help of 2 other people, when I only see my kids 2 weeks out of the month. She seems to want to live like a girl in her 20s and not someone who has 3 kids.. how will she handle another baby joining in?

2. Will Billy be leaving Bri alone to take care of the kids while he goes off on trips with Aspyn? Will he be more closer with Bri or distance himself? Would he take sides if this throuple blew up? Bri would be the mother of his children, but Aspyn seems to be the one he cares about more.

3. I don’t see Bri being pregnant/postpartum and being okay with Billy being like “hey, me and Aspyn are going on vacay! Have fun! Will she hire a nanny like Aspyn to have time alone with the other 2?

I have sooooo many questions.

What do you guys think goes on inside of Billy’s head?

Does he like Aspyn more? Does he miss his marriage before Aspyn? What are his plans for the future? Is he excited to have children with Bri? Does he love her?

Their dynamic is just so interesting..

I genuinely feel for Bri (even if I don’t like some of her beliefs), and everything she’s been so open about regarding her fertility journey. Infertility is heartbreaking, and I can’t imagine going through that publicly.

But am I the only one who finds the timing of their situation kind of… complicated? 😭 If my partner and I were actively trying to have a baby and struggling to conceive, I personally don’t know how I would feel about my partner also actively sleeping with someone else.

And before anyone comes for me, I know that Billy having sex with Aspen isn’t necessarily affecting Bri’s fertility or medically preventing them from getting pregnant. I’m talking more about the emotional side of it. Trying for a baby can already be stressful and emotionally draining, and adding a third romantic/sexual partner into that dynamic seems like it could make an already difficult situation even more complicated.

Maybe their relationship genuinely works for them, and obviously they’re the only ones who truly know their dynamic. But personally? I feel like I would want my relationship and my journey to becoming parents to feel very private and focused on the two of us.

Am I being judgmental, or does anyone else see why this situation feels a little messy? At the end of the day, I am just scared for all 3 of them because I can not imagining this ending well… 😬

Does anyone find it kinda weird that Bri went on tiktok the other day and basically sat there and said people who believe in God are kinda stupid, when her “wife” is literally joining a show about mormonism (even though she’s not a mormon).. AND also bri is filming for it too??

everything just seems backwards? why go on a show like that when you hate religion..?

Sharing this because I simply wanna have someone to talk to about this lol.
I feel like there has to be some level of jealousy involved… I mean, how could there not be? Billy and Bri literally live together, and I just don’t see how that wouldn’t bother Aspyn at least a little bit.
I also feel like Bri may have initially just been trying to explore her sexuality, and then Aspyn and Billy ended up hitting it off too. Which makes me wonder, did Bri actually want her husband to have another relationship with a woman, or is she just going along with it because of how everything developed?
And then I wonder if everyone is actually equally invested in this. Like, is this truly three people equally choosing each other and wanting the same thing, or did one relationship evolve out of another and now everyone is trying to make it work?
And what happens if one relationship ends? 👀 Like, if Bri and Billy broke up, would Aspyn still have a relationship with Billy? If Aspyn and Billy broke up, would Bri stay with Aspyn? If two people decide they’re done, does the entire relationship end, or can the other two continue separately?
Maybe they genuinely have amazing communication and this works perfectly for them, and obviously none of us know what actually goes on behind closed doors. But from the outside, there are SO many moving parts here that I just can’t imagine it staying uncomplicated forever.
I can see this ending badly… but maybe I’m completely wrong 😂
What do y’all think?