r/aspynovardsnark

Sorry if this was already addressed here but did anyone ever find out what the secret Parker was hiding from Aspyn was? She found out about it after she had already filed for divorce right? Also do we think it will be discussed on SLOMW OC at all ?

So Aspyn is officially divorced in April (which, yeah, you can be mentally separated for a while before that, but still), okay…then comes the not-so-demure TikTok crash-out era, then boom 🙂 there comes Bri 🙂
Now this trad wife of 7 years who is now divorced joins a throuple the same YEAR she filed 😅 ( Instead of healing )
I think Bri took advantage of Aspyn’s post-divorce loneliness crash-out, and Aspyn put herself and her daughters into genuinely the most confusing mindfuck of a relationship that we all know will end in burning flames sooner or later andnis simply to spice 🌶️ up a marriage ( sorry! just my opinion !) , traumatizing the children even more than a divorce already traumatizes kids even when it’s amicable 🙃

Does anyone else find the dynamic between Aspyn, Brie and Billy really odd? Their content just feels like one long conversation about everything that’s wrong in their lives. Aspyn talks about OCD, therapy and feeling overwhelmed, then Brie talks about IVF and psoriasis, and it becomes this endless cycle of “you poor thing.” Where is the fun? Where is the enjoyment of being together? 😭

Obviously, partners should support each other, and discussing health problems isn’t inherently strange. But from what they choose to show, their relationship seems so centred on problems, reassurance and rescuing Aspyn that I struggle to see much else.

Then there’s the constant talk about how busy she is. I also have three children of similar ages, so I understand that school runs and activities take time. But the schedule she describes school, weekly therapy appointments and dance sounds like a pretty normal parenting week. Yet she presents it as completely unmanageable, despite apparently having considerable help and sharing custody.

She’ll talk about being absolutely overwhelmed, then describe a day that leaves me wondering what I’m missing. There may be plenty happening off camera, but the life she shows doesn’t really match the constant “I’m so busy, I can’t cope” commentary. 🫠

And that feeds into the relationship dynamic. Brie and Billy sometimes come across more like they’re parenting Aspyn than being her partners. She’s presented as this wounded bird who needs everyone to step in, organise things and reassure her.

Even the latest discussion about BPD left me wondering whether Aspyn is becoming increasingly focused on finding explanations for everything she feels, to the point that the search itself dominates everything.

And I wonder whether this relationship dynamic reinforces that. Aspyn comes across as the hurt, overwhelmed person who needs Bri and Billy to reassure her and pick up the pieces. But Bri seems to dwell on her own problems too, so the reassurance goes both ways without either of them really shifting the mood.

Obviously, talking about mental health isn’t the problem. It’s the constant focus on what’s wrong that feels draining to watch. Are they helping each other move forward, or just encouraging each other to dwell? Because from the outside, I do wonder whether this dynamic is making Aspyn feel more overwhelmed rather than more capable. 😵‍💫

I've followed Aspyn for many years now and I'm sure people have already said this but billy and Bri are here for the $$.

They moved across the country to be with their GF? More like they moved across the country to get on a TV show and Bri to become and influencer. Aspyn was taking Bri on brand trips before they went public.

I've seen the tiktok where billy says his first impression of Aspyn was that 'she is tiny' and you hear Bri say 'what do you mean...?' It's clear there is an objective here and not so much 'free love' IMO.

I think they are predatory and were preying on Aspen when she was at her lowest and most vulnerable. I know she is a grown adult but when Bri DM'd her, Aspyn was postpartum, a new single mom of 3, alone in a new community in CA, had lost her dad going through a public divorce and crashing out online. Who knows what else was going on behind the scene too.