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So Aspyn is officially divorced in April (which, yeah, you can be mentally separated for a while before that, but still), okay…then comes the not-so-demure TikTok crash-out era, then boom 🙂 there comes Bri 🙂
Now this trad wife of 7 years who is now divorced joins a throuple the same YEAR she filed 😅 ( Instead of healing )
I think Bri took advantage of Aspyn’s post-divorce loneliness crash-out, and Aspyn put herself and her daughters into genuinely the most confusing mindfuck of a relationship that we all know will end in burning flames sooner or later andnis simply to spice 🌶️ up a marriage ( sorry! just my opinion !) , traumatizing the children even more than a divorce already traumatizes kids even when it’s amicable 🙃

found out im pregnant a few days ago, which means i will be about 11 weeks running my first ever marathon in October, i really dont want to back out as iv come so far in my training 😭
My longest run will be 18 miles this sunday, and the highest before marathon day will be 20 a few weeks before “race” day.
Has anyone here ran a marathon in the first tri ? How did it go?

i promised myself i would not gain 65 lbs again with this pregnancy like i did with my last but all day for the last 3 days i just keep eating and eating im not even that hungry genuinely just boredom 😩 also it doesnt help that i dont get nausea …
is this is a thing where i find out im pregnant and now feel like i can get away with extra snacks or is this normal?

OUTS- 🚫 nictotine pouches, daily redbulls , hot cheetos , diet coke , diet dr. pepper , sugar

INS 💚
- Chia seed pudding every morning
-prenatals+ probiotics every morning
-one cup of coffee a day
-ashwaganda gummies (i genuienly think these helped me get pregnant with my first )
-magnesium nightly
-bought warm socks from amazon
-a fat steak weekly
-sweet potatoes (as often as possible)

generally just trying to lower my intake of processed food but i am a junk food …junkie so this has been hard :(

I should be about 12dpo today (not exactly sure as i only started tracking this month )
My LH strips 2 showed bright positive lines for the last two weeks, i think my body was just freaking out as a quit nictone and my daily redbulls cold turkey…
all hcg tests are showing negatives.
It’s okay though,maybe its for the best i didnt get pregant first try like i assumed i would 😂
These next two weeks i will do everything i can to help conception

i 24F am so fascinated by planes. I live close to an aiport and i see so planes all throught out the day. It just seems surreal seeing this huge thousand pound object just soaring through the sky like how crazy is it that we dont even bat an eye most of the time !!
And it hold human beings and considered safer than driving 😦

i truly DEEPLY believe she loves bree but tolerates billy sorry🤷‍♀️🤣 also did you guys hear how condencending he was talking about Aspyns interest about “fourth dimention “ like ok obvi yeah its not real but why be rude atleast it came off rude to me

my appetite has increased a lot, and im not even in the thick of my training block, my longest run will he this sunday (10 mi) and i know its normal, and a lot of second third fourth time marathoners say they gained weight during their training block.
idc about the number on the scale part of it , i just want to make sure im in optimal shape for race day, i want to feel light , and not carry extra 10-20 pounds while running it .
Are there any avid runners who have managed to maintain a healthy weight during their block/ and or can give advice managing the increased appetite ?
I’m currently tracking my protein , and cleaning up my diet more from processed foods.

i thought birds chirp in the morning only ?

A year later, my heart still hurts for poor trigg for spending minutes in the water taking his last breath , hoping his mom or dad could save him last may, i remember last year i cried and cried for them. I didnt even watch Emilie, i only heard of her or sometimes her videos would show up on my fyp. Only to find out she was filming content not even two months later , and got pregnant not even a year later !
So while we are all mourning FOR HER, shes fine yall. Shes good, good enough to book a europe trip on the anniversary of her sons drowning , good enough to get PREGNANT AGAIN.

Fuck all that

why does my SIL (husbands brothers wife ) dislike me ? whyy do i even care 🙄
well just a bit about me, i have (had) people pleasing tendencies. I am learning to match people energy. Its hard but im in my mid twenties now so it’s getting a bit easier bc i have just less and less tolerance for weird behavior . Im 24 and my SiL is 19. Iv been married to my husband for going on six years, shes been married to BIL for a year now, and I have tried to figure out if maybe she holds some resentment towards me for not allowing her to do my nails (she starting a nail business side hustle) bc im a toddler mom who changes diapers all day , elbow deep in sourdough, dishes ect. i just dont WANT my nails being “done” i just keep them bare. idk. When she was super new to the family, i made an effort to talk to her and get to know her. I KNOW that iv been nice and respectful to her whenever we were at family functions. Asking her questions about her life, and just overall showed an interest in HER.
The thing is, whenever we are in a group of peope , she very blatenly ignores me. doesnt make eye contact , wont say a word in my direction. Many times will literally face her entire body away from me to the point where its very awkward and noticable.
I underatand that shes really young, and maybe doesnt realize how offputing this comes off but iv seen her interact with my other sister in laws and shes VERY nice and sweet to them.
I guess im just confused.
I also feel ridiculous even writing this post bc this girl is NINETEEN. Im NOT about to have beef with a NINETEEN year old but its hard to avoid her as our family gets together a lot.
Should i just bring it up to her ? should i just do my best to avoid her ?
Iv come to the point now where when we are in the same room i dont even try to make any small talk or initiate any conversation like i have before. Which is atypical of me bc i usually exhibit “fawning” behaviors when i feel tension.
I’ve just never experienced this before and would like to hear someone elses opinion on this.

like idk today my diet consisted of coffee with condensed milk, sourdough with butter, a couple takis, and cookies .
like i just dont care and will eat whatever i want to and i dotn feel guilt i just stay within my limits 🤷‍♀️
EDIT: just an FYI NO i do not have an eating disorder !!! i have zero food noise because i eat whatever i want ! whenever i tell myself i have to eat super nutritious healthy food it creates food noise for me because then im constantly thinking about what im going to eat. YES i understand this isnt the best way to eat, no it doesnt make me feel AMAZING and yes sometimes i am left feeling hungry becuase i didnt prioritize protein , but at the end of the day the freedom i feel from not revolving my entire day around “healthy “meals allows me to live and LOVE my life. No im not condoning this and i understand that eventually i do need to clean up my diet if i want to improve skin, energy or anything like that

help why is orson turning evil again ? 😭🤣

*I WILL BE CALLING HER PED FIRST THING A.M (its 2 am here ) *
but maybe someone has some insight ?

we gave her the approprate dose , or attempted to through syringe as shes running a fever. Not even 1 minute later she threw up.
How do you even them to take a syringe ???
She was fighting it.

it says 6:30 pm everythursday at X location but i was there and nobody was , how can i find a solid group? 🤔