I[38M] don't think my wife[36F] has ever climaxed. What should I do?
My wife and I have known each-other for about 7 years, and we've been married for 3.
Our sex life is fine on paper; we usually have sex multiple times per week, but I don't think she's ever orgasmed.
She insists that she enjoys sex, but I've asked her about if she's ever experienced an orgasm, and she doesn't think she's experienced a stage of sex that she can point to and say "yes, that's the orgasm."
I understand that I'm supposed to stimulate the clitoris, and maybe perform oral, but she usually doesn't want those things. What we do usually consists of PiV, kissing, and massages to the shoulders or back.
If I ever suggest oral, she says no, often telling me that she hasn't washed it well enough. She usually doesn't like it very much when I use my fingers.
What should I do? Should I just give up on it and stop worrying about whether or not she's climaxed?
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My wife's never climaxed, and I'm not sure if she wants to. What should I do?