it feels like i am physically unable to have sex
title is kind of self explanatory. i (19FtX) have never been able to insert more than half of a finger into my vagina, which is painful. i also have a very small mouth, i cant fit more than my own finger in my mouth without feeling my teeth. i also have IBS, which blocks off my last big option there. in my life, i have only ever been able to orgasm after roughly an hour straight of clitoral stimulation, and I have been on anti depressants for two and a half years. I already struggle with getting dates as a nonbinary person in a republican area, and i dont know how i'm going to even attempt a first time. what do you even say when you know it'll end bad for either me or the person i'm with? i'm young and inexperienced so i'm probably overeacting but it feels hopeless and i'm wondering if any of you have any advice?