Change my view: men admire other men who cheat and/or monkey branch
Maybe the title doesn't match the flair, but I get this feeling more and more from what my so-called friends tell them about what their hisbands think. And even the so called friends have this "both side-ism" to them that shocks me. Especially a friend who is overwhelmed by her busy life with children, career, house building and a husband that doesn't support her like he wants her to. She told me that "cheating isn't the worst thing that someone can do in a marriage" and overtly being on the side of the cheater when the cheating context came up, but with different couples (celebrities, vague acquaintances etc). However her husband has the "mercenary" mindset: he would fight as long as it takes in order to pay less to the ex wife (if he was in my ex's shoes that is). I am so disappointed in life. I swear that aside from my dad, all my friends have these shoddy beliefs. I cannot believe these are the people I have near me, and I am afraid that all people are like that.