u/thygratebirther

Roommate Inviting Strangers Over

My roommate and I are both women. We’ve been getting into it lately because she keeps inviting men she doesn’t know or just met to our apartment.

I don’t care if it’s every now and then, or if it’s a boyfriend I don’t care at all. But it really bothers me that all of these random men know our address and are in my safe space when we know absolutely nothing about them.

She thinks I’m being unfair, because my boyfriend comes over twice a week and she doesn’t like him. I told her I wouldn’t have him over if she’s uncomfortable with it, but he’s also not a stranger we’ve been together for over a year.

I feel like it’s not that unreasonable to not want a bunch of strange men to have my address, but I don’t know, I’ve never had this issue with other roommates.

So am I being unreasonable?

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u/thygratebirther — 2 days ago