How are we doing our lashes?
On a silly note through all of the suck that comes with EDS, can yall please share how you do your lashes? Mascara? Dying them? Extensions? False lashes?
For me it’s just eye shadow, because I haven’t found a mascara that doesn’t cause a reaction or make my eye lashes fall out faster (slight MCAS is suspected by my allergist) I have found a few but… quality wise they’re clumpy without much extension and not that good so not really worth it). My lashes are blonde at the tips so I’d love for nice occasions to look like I have some (even though I do they’re just hiding and not SUPER lush like my bf’s- yes I’m jealous of them). I’ve considered extensions but knowing there can be complications for normal people- I just worry my EDS skin is going to find another way to make me more complicated. And false lashes- I have the same issue with the glue as mascara if not worse- my normal skin reacts in hives from the tugging caused by most bandaids so I can’t imagine glue on my eyelids! And magnetic seem to be a great way to loose all my existing lashes. Dying seems like the most likely solution but I’m scared of how my skin let alone my eyes >.< are going to react to the dye. But I’m open to anything! I just want some recommendations based on fellow zebra experiences!
And for those saying they could care less because x serious thing- I am aware how zebra’s can elevate their lash game IS THE LEAST of our problems- but please respect that this is just a lighthearted thing to discuss as a break from that ok?
Note: r/ehlersdanlos took down this post after nearly 80 comments because: “While it’s perfectly normal to notice unusual things about your body, it’s important to remember that not every difference or discomfort is a sign of EDS. If you’re unsure, it’s best to consult your healthcare provider or approach the situation with a general curiosity, rather than assuming it’s related to EDS. This approach can help prevent misinformation, overmedicalization, and confusion within the community. If you're experiencing something distressing or disruptive, we recommend bringing it up with a healthcare provider.”
I think everyone who has gone through EDS knows asking their doctor for lash tips is the least of their worries. No where did I claim EDS affects how you can do lashes- I just asked how fellow people with EDS do them as well as my own personal experience with lashes. What is documented as an EDS strait is sensitive stretchy skin and many with EDS not being able to use various cosmetic products, so I thought a post about how this can apply to lashes would be useful. While one product may work for one person, it may not work for another- but if something as simple as asking people how they do their lashes is against your guidelines, you may need to rethink your priorities in moderation- key word moderation.