u/tightwad5462

Hi all, I think I found conflicting documentation on the role of app connectors and I want to get the communities input:

The [official docs](https://tailscale.com/docs/features/app-connectors/how-to/setup) say

> App connectors let you route Tailscale network (known as a tailnet) traffic to your software as a service (SaaS), cloud, and self-hosted applications, letting users and devices on the tailnet access applications by domain names instead of IP addresses.

But the [k8s connector](https://github.com/tailscale/tailscale/blob/main/k8s-operator/api.md#connector) says:

> Using the app connector to expose cluster workloads or other internal workloads to tailnet might work, but this is not a use case that we have tested or optimised for.

I’m confused as to how to proceed as to me these are conflicting statements.

My goal is to make a public DNS record (app.domain.com) resolve on my lan without tailscale and away from my lan through tailscale. Further, I want some level of ACLs on these apps that I can configure in tailscale. To me the first quote says an app connector is what I want but the second link says not to use it.

Am I misunderstanding?

We are two weeks into sleep training (using taking Cara babies method) but in the last week our little guy has regressed a lot. We started with a dream feed at 10:30 and 2:30. Wake windows usually 2/2/2/2 (3-4H naps,7-8 bedtime).

Now he wakes up hours before his feeds and has multiple wakes where he’s screaming and crying. We try to let him cry it out doing the check jns. But after 1H we sometimes just feed him as is usually hungry and goes to sleep downright after. We try to wait so he doesn’t think screaming gets him food.

It’s worth noting that he is small - 12 lbs.

How do we tackle the wakes and the screaming? We’ve tried changing bedtime, more feeds during the day, more and less nap time but nothing really seems to be helping him.

Here is a log from the other night that shows what he’s been doing:

In bed 7:48
Asleep-8:08 (2 checks)
Awake 10:22 fusssing (cold?) changed into onsie and fed
Awake 1:19-1:38 1:45-1:55
Dream fed at 2:20
Awake at 5:30-6:05 crying no breaks
Feed at 6:05-6:30 back in crib calm and playing take out of the crib at 7 awake

Confused about app connectors

5 month Old random wakeups