u/tina_191

Im f 33 and have been married for 8 years . My husband is m 38 . We hardly have sex . 90% of the time I intiate sex . Ive spoken to him multiple times about how this affects me but he jst points out my faults . Idk what to do . Currently its been 3 months without sex. I even do the things he likes even thought i hate them to the corr jst so that we can have sex . I dont wanna cheat but right now its just getting hard . Ive asked him to workout hoping that myb itll increase his libido but he wont do tht he wont even consider gng to the doctor to get himself checked . Im getting sexually frustrated and i dont know what to do anymore . Should i ask for divorce ?