Heterosexual Married Male come to the realization i prefer lesbians as friends
Recently having a conversation with my wife, and I realized after the election I really don't have much interest in guy friends in the south since many are maga, a good portion of the straight women I have had as friends turned out to have a crush on me or they think I do when I chit chat. Often same outcome with gay males. Not all the time, but I am awkward enough socially that the negatives outweigh the good ones in my mind probably.
Anyhow, look back I realized the most fun, low stress friendships seem to be the lesbians I had as friends. They are usually really clean, i dont have to worry about romantic entanglements, I never had a sister but I sort of lump them in the same category as I would my cousins or family mentally as far as not thinking of them as any potential partner. They are alot of time IME into some pretty cool outdoor activities and have good insights on stuff.
Soooo, it got me thinking and I don't know what to do with that info. I used to live in an apartment with a community pool and there were several groups that hung out but now in suburbia its sooo boring and hard to meet people, is there some non-encroaching avenues for me to make more lesbian friends?
Like I dont want to come off as like the 40 year old at a high school party sorta vibe. Anyways just curious, hope I didn't offend anyone.