u/totallydeanblunt

This is going to sound so silly because the root of the argument genuinely is the utmost stupidest thing ever. Okay, so, I was in the kitchen and my sister asked me to wash the dishes. I then noticed that there was a hard residue at the bottom of the pot so I searched for a hard bristle brush to scrape it off. My sister then stopped me and said “that’s probably for the toilet, don’t use that” I then responded back saying “why would mum keep something from the toilet in the kitchen”? We then kept on going back and forth until I decided to clear up the disagreement by asking our mum myself. My mum said it wasn’t for the toilet but for the kitchen. I then turned to my sister and said “I can’t lie, it was a bit stupid to insinuate that” she then said “don’t call me stupid” I then said “I’m not calling you stupid, I’m saying what you said was a bit stupid”. She then started getting a bit angry and I started getting a bit annoyed and my mum got in the middle of us - she threw the first hit at me and all hell broke loose. The argument then went to my room and we were throwing stuff at each other. My mum then had to get on top of me as I was about to smash a bottle on her head. (I promise you guys, I am not an angry person…I’m quite slow to anger but in this case I just couldn’t stop it) My mum then grabbed the bottle and had to put her body weight on me to stop me from engaging with my sister. We both said some horrible and I mean horrible stuff to each other (death threats, profanities, curses…etc) but what really broke me is that she exposed a secret of mine that I told her in confidentiality. She exposed that I had an STD (I was unaware of him having an STD as he lied to me but that’s in the past) and then called me a prostitute for having sex? Lol. That really broke me as I knew not to expose any of her secrets. No matter how angry I was, I didn’t want to say anything about her past but after that I went insane and exposed shit about her. She then proceeded to make it worse my punching me in the face as our mum was holding me down (I was in a state where I couldn’t inflict harm on her). She then started to record me screaming and crying and saying “I’m reporting you to the police” “look at you hurting our mum” just painting me out as this crazy person, when we were both insane. She recorded the moments where I was looking hysterical. I’m just so mad, I know that I am also to blame as I said and did some vile stuff but ugh how could she expose me like that. I can’t forgive her, I want to but I just can’t. For context she’s 25 and I’m 21. We’ve never really had a massive argument like this…we rarely argue. I just never want to see her again.