I broke up with my FA
i broke up with him about 3 weeks ago. i just couldn’t handle the stonewalling the silence. Me over explaining how i need bare minimum like communication updates consistent contact. I thought he understood because he always apologized. there were red flags like when we were dating and he was not replying for a day, then telling me he needed space from screens. or when we had agreed on time but not on place for a date and he didn’t ask, when i reached out he told me something like he just assumed i was busy with friend. he assumed a lot. me traveling so i would not want to hear from him. or when i invited him to my friends birthday party and he told me he will come. told me he will try to be there at 6 and apparently he decided i dont need him there bc i am with friend do when i reached out he didnt consider it important that i know… i fucking hate him. i needed to get out. he was also struggling with nicotine addiction and needed to quit bc if healt issue. he needed time and space and even told me he will fight for us and work on the issues and then it was worse then ever. i was reaching out to him. he is not replying currentl. he stopped after wishing me luck on my interview and never replied when i texted how it went… its been like 2 week. i hate that i love him. he replied amazingly quickly to my break up message bc he wouldn’t pick up my call. he said bullshit like i don’t deserve the kind of person he is now. and wished my nice summer. also told me i can text him anytim, to that i laughed