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May these 2 rest in peace 🤍

Hey guys, curious to know how family dynamics played out for other Pisces. Did you get along with your parents, are you low/no-contact, or were you blessed with great parents who genuinely loved and showed up for you? How does it affect you now as a Pisces adult?

For context: My Libra mother has always been selfish and unreliable, my Virgo dad was toxic, narcissistic, and abnormally controlling, and his Aries wife was just as toxic lol constantly competing with me, envying everything I did, and backing up his mistreatment. Miraculously holding zero grudges about any of it tho lol. Dealing with parents like that just taught me how to forgive very easily and distance myself from people like that

What signs are your parents, and how did things turn out for you?

There is so much peace and joy on the other side of finally accepting reality. Even if it HURTS, accepting it and deciding you actually want better for yourself will set you FREE!!!! That goes for relationships, friendships or any life situation that’s draining you

Accept whatever you’re going through and acknowledge that how you were treated wasn’t fair, but don’t let yourself stay stuck in self-pity. Forgive them (for your own peace of mind), let go, then set boundaries and tell yourself you’re done accepting that kind of treatment

Stop making yourself small for people who can’t match your genuine love and kindness and stop letting people manipulate you into thinking mistreatment is normal. Go after better for yourselves, at your own pace. You only have one life. Start living it for you as well 🫂

I think sometimes a lot of us Pisces can get stuck in the fog of “what could have been” or we sometimes daydream about a better outcome, get stuck in emotional loops that don’t serve us, or even sometimes become hyper-fixated on revenge. But you don’t have to stay there guys lol. Accept reality, choose yourself and decide you want better for your life…..genuinely, whatever that looks like to YOU

Idk why, but I have a feeling this upcoming fall and winter arc is going to be so beautiful for us. I’m feeling very optimistic 😆

Lol and one last thing: don’t forget to show yourself the same grace you show others. Give yourself permission to grow and make mistakes instead of punishing yourself for not knowing what you know now, you’re not perfect. No one is. Be kind to yourself

As a Pisces woman, sorry to say but I’ve realized I don’t really mix romantically with other water sign men, no matter how much I try or give them chances (specifically Pisces and Scorpio men). From experience, it can start to feel like we both want “princess treatment” and that gives me the ICK ☹️

I feel like there’s a difference between men who appreciate reciprocity naturally versus men who actively center themselves as someone who mostly needs to be chased, spoiled, constantly reassured or given “princess treatment” in relationships and in my experience, water sign men can lean more into that second dynamic lol

Not saying this to bash water sign men. I actually think they can sometimes make amazing friends because of their emotional depth. But romantically, I tend to feel more secure with earth signs because their energy feels more stable, grounded and less emotionally reactive

I'm also aware sun sign isn't everything, but l've noticed that for me personally, water sign suns just don't work romantically, regardless of other placements. Any other Pisces women feel the same way? 🫪

What’s crazy is I was doing AMAZING from January until now. Like mentally stable, productive, calm, detached… and then this month just started whooping my ass so bad out of nowhere 😭

I feel so disconnected!! Nothing is even happening in my life right now yet somehow EVERYTHING feels heavy. I’m overstimulated, overwhelmed, irritated, exhausted, randomly emotional, and missing exes I don’t even want back anymore???

This month is putting BTA and I can’t fake the funk anymore