did you get over someone who you thought was the love of your life?
i’m going through a bad breakup, it’s been about 6 weeks, no contact.
i definitely feel better, but that feeling of ‘did i lose the love of my life?’ won’t go away. i did have a similar situation with a guy when i was 17, we didn’t even end up dating we were just in a ‘situationship’ for 3 months. it took me about a year to get over it and i honestly didn’t think id find anyone else attractive ever again… but i did.
i keep asking because this is different. this was a 2 year relationship with someone who i was happy to spend the rest of my life with.
so people who have went through similar things, did you eventually realise they weren’t the love of your life? did you move on, find someone who was? are you able to think about them and not feel a thing?