Dating: To women that men are drawn to, why do you think so?
Women who've dated lots/are dating, and who easily get (high quality) men pursuing them, what do you think they are drawn to?
By this I'm not trying to sound insecure. I've just dated a lot and I have a sense I'm great on paper (ie by this I mean like a cool, good, attractive, happy person, not that I'm rich or have a good job)... I get asked out quickly and frequently by attractive men (via the dating apps).
But pretty much any guy I ever like doesn't like me back essentially right away after the date. I'm starting to wonder if there's something in my personality that repels the men I like. For context I'm almost 37 now so I've have many years of dating.
Again not trying to sound insecure, I love myself and think I'm great. My friends love me to death. I have no drama with people ever. But I'm trying to be self reflective about possible areas that are fucking up dating for me.