u/ughsighmm

41[F4A] - seeking human alarm clock

Hi, I could really use some support in getting me disciplined with a routine. 6 am wake ups and 10 pm sleeps on voice calls. Stretches both times and getting organised for the day. Our time zones would work best if they were the opposite so we could help each other. Not sure if someone else needs something like this , I had it for a bit and it helped.

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u/ughsighmm — 1 day ago

41[F4M]- surely, surely I'm not incompatible with everyone?

I would like to find someone who enjoys my company and possibly wants to meet up in the future. I'm not in the US so if that's an issue pls don't respond or if you're married or with kids. Sorry about the no kids bit and I know that's very rare in your forties but that's what I would prefer.

Some with a professional job and who is independent financially is important.

In terms of looks I am more attracted to the tall skinny kind with a nice face and smile.

Someone who can lighten my days and not let me feel alone.

I may be a difficult person I have realised. I'm not a bad person but I want things in certain ways and can get grumpy. When I'm happy to talk a lot but get quiet when stressed or unhappy. I get nervous around ppl especially ones I respect or like and I may come across as rude or unfriendly but it's not how I feel.

I think I would be good for someone though since I am loyal and supportive. I would like to know what a true companion feels like and now I'm at a point where I don't want to die without experiencing it at least.

I want to travel more and a companion would be great since currently I mostly travel with family. I love art, history, true crime, artsy movies. Painted for a bit. I love plants and would love a gardener buddy.

In terms of the material things, I'm very stable and independent financially so I don't need someone to support me. I'm 59 kgs, 1.63 m, short hair currently and I'm gonna keep it that way from now on.

I would like voice chat since I find those chats more expressive and worthwhile . In terms of age 40 to 45 I guess.

Here goes, thanks for reading.

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u/ughsighmm — 23 days ago

40 [F4M] - long term voice chat with someone my age or older

I posted something yesterday and then deleted it. Let me know if you're interested in the above mentioned sort of interaction, thank you for your attention to this matter :)

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u/ughsighmm — 2 months ago

40[F4M]- routine voice chat

Hi, hope you're all ok. I'm looking for someone for routine daily conversations,ideally get up with and someone to look forward to talking to when I get home. I just get lonely sometimes.

I have a very stable life and have previously talked to ppl for years and I like that. If it's something special ,we could meet up but I'm fine with just online too.

I prefer voice as I feel that it feels like a real conversation. In terms of personality, I like art, plants , interior design, travelling and museums. I'm not into gaming/ tech/ cars or anime so that rules out most men but I'm just not. I am pretty serious and can get really moody and grumpy. But when I'm happy I'm really chatty when I'm not I go pretty quiet. Im vegetarian and don't work out but I'm in decent shape. 58 kgs and 1.63 my tall if that means anything to you.

I would like someone who is genuine, means what they say, just themselves not pretending to be what they are not but I guess when you're in your 40s you should be over that. Someone who has nice hair and is not in terrible shape. I am not interested in married men, people with kids or who don't have stability in their lives. Most of the ppl I've talked fall in to some of those categories and I'd prefer a clean slate. Yes I understand that's probably rare in the 40s but that's what I would prefer.

I'll leave it at that for now and see if anyone responds.

Thanks for reading if you did, wouldn't blame you if you didn't. These can be a bit of a drag sometimes and I have nothing clever to keep your attention.

Sorry didn't think I needed to add this but pls be 40 to 47 years old.

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u/ughsighmm — 2 months ago