Guys i was at work, and Colby came in with Malia, i was freaking out but i couldn't say anything. I live in Las vegas. And they were soooooo nice and polite. I met Tara last year, and now him haha im so happy
I don't know if it's wrong but with the years i became more aware of people's intentions, I had a pretty bad experience with my old group of friends, were they used to talk bad about everyone but at that point of my life I was very naive and i wanted to see the good in everyone, with time i distanced myself and it ended up in a lot of drama, I was pretty depressed, during that time I met my now bf. I always been honest to him, I've been vocal about not trusting new people and i got pretty judgy with peoples actions. He is the opposite, he is very positive, trust everyone he meets, and is very social. Unfortunately, we work in the same career so we know a lot of the same people, so when we get into fights he always mentions how mean and negative i am towards some of those people, which it hurts me bc the reason i became like this was bc i was hurt a lot in the past, and he knows this as well. I don't consider myself a bitch just because, i always give new people a chance and sometimes they ended up being fake and even gossiping about us (ik is bc they are bored w their lifes), i think is a valid reason to cut them off, but he disagrees.
I amtrying to be more positive but i dont wanna put my walls down, i dont want random and mean people near me at all, but he thinks thats just wrong.
I need a different point of view, please let me know what you think.