Lost 85 plus pounds aswell! I am 10 months PP with my second baby. This area is super soft. Already started deep core workouts. It just seems like its not supported underneath, like its just soft flabby belly pushing foward. Thanks in advance:))
Lots of realization lately. Been in a really toxic relationship, after seeking meds for my untreated bipolar 2 it has helped me tremendously. I also have been stable enough mentally to see that im with a narcissist. Everything is great until I express ANYTHING slightly needing help? Needing more emotional support, need more deep conversations to connect? Yeah hes giving me nothing. Doesnt take any responsibility for anything and over 5 years has made me think I am the one completely at fault for everything. Everything. He made me believe it for so long.
We have 2 kids and they are super young. Its been fucking hell. I have been stretched to my breaking point and my bipolar mood swings were getting so bad and he was happily using it against me to say I was unwell and crazy knowing damn well he was manipulating me and gaslighting me the whole time. One example was when I was breastfeeding my first baby and was having a hard time producing enough and really wanted to move to formula. He refused, made me feel bad about it and said our baby deserves the best and it is not formula. I even cried during the night because my supply was pretty much gone and he woke up angry and told me I needed to keep trying.
That was 3 years ago, theres been so many things hes done that is absolutely absurd. I am so glad im not being brainwashed anymore, the mental strain this has caused me almost ruined my life. Just needed to vent....things have been so rough.