29F & 32M with 3 kids and needing help
Hello,
I have been struggling with my boyfriend since last year due to behavior issues. I had left with my kids in October to another state and had been bouncing around place to place while pregnant at the time.
When I first separated from him he started counseling; in December my children and I ended up having to return to his residence due to issues with stability in housing, about to have my baby in January 2026 and he promised that he would change and no longer have his behavior issues.
When I first returned in December a little bit before Christmas, my boyfriend was still attending counseling; he had decided he got enough help and knowledge from the counseling to stop going; he stopped going in January.
As of March I have been having issues with his behavior. He has been yelling, calling me names , being controlling and as of recently hit an object because he was so angry; Some of these behaviors have happened around the children and then he blames me for his angry behavior.
I have a recording of a recent incident between us from MAY 12th 2026; if anyone wants to listen and please give me advice.
Other than the issues that I have been having; he is a good dad and he does support us financially at the moment so he may be financially stressed but I’m not sure what to think as I am past domestic survivor.
Is this abuse and can someone please help me with this?