Hey guys
What if you are out with your girlfriend/wife and high urge to poop comes and there is no toilet within range of 5-10 kms ?also what if you just shitted in your pants also As a girlfriend/wife what will you do ?
I’m typing this because I’m just feeling so lost and defeated today.
After my last relationship ended, my heart feels broken beyond repair. I put so much of myself into it, only to realize that when things got real, I wasn't being accepted for who I truly am. It made me feel like completely closing the door on dating for good.
I know I’m not perfect. I’m carrying grief, I have flaws, and I’m actively trying to heal and work on things every single day. But I always thought that’s what a good partner does—they see you in your entirety, including the messy parts you’re still working on, and they choose to learn and grow with you anyway.
Is that just a fairytale now? Have any of you been at this exact point—feeling like your heart was totally shattered and that you were "too much" for someone—and actually found a partner who accepted all of you, grief and all?
I just really need a little hope right now.
Im currently in a 6 month relationship and I just recently got out of a bad argument with my girlfriend. I basically said something that accidentally disrespected her, even though it was never my intention.
Basically the conversation we were having was if there was anything that she did that bothered me, and while there truly isn’t, I kept feeling pressured to give an answer and I carelessly said in a very roundabout way that I didn’t like that she is trying to find problems out of nothing. I gave into my insecurity and failed her.
This damaged her trust in me and future conversations and was so close to ending the relationship, but I was thankfully given another chance.
However, if I do something like that again, it’s over.
I want to do better for her, but I am afraid of messing up again. I feel like other couples occasionally accidentally disrespect each other so being given an ultimatum scares me.
I want to return to therapy, possibly do coupled counseling, visit my psychiatrist regarding medication to better improve my EQ, practice these scenarios, literally anything and everything to do better.
I love this woman and I want to be better for her.
Any insight? Is this sustainable? Is the request reasonable or extreme? Do I have any hope?