u/unknown_passage

I’m pre-op, no plans of bottom surgery. I’m so lucky for my amazing boyfriend. At times in my life I thought I’d never find anyone like him. But I talk to queer and trans friends of mine and I feel like they pick on me for my attraction to men. And even now that I have a cis boyfriend they view me as a normal woman dating a man like I don’t relate to them anymore. This is obviously validating but also not? Me and my boyfriend are viewed by the world as so queer even if we don’t intend to be. How come I feel shamed by cis normative communities and queer communities? I hope somebody knows the weird feeling I’m experiencing :(