u/vamp_kuddles

Hello everyone, I’m still new to polyamory and follow this Reddit to try to gain insight in it. My husband and I date separately but recently found a “unicorn”. I’m seeing things that say dating a unicorn is unethical and not proper for polyamory. We both have feelings for her and both date her separately and together. Is there a way to make a unicorn work or should I stop dating her so he can? She does have her own primary relationship on top of us. So we don’t expect or want her to be exclusive to us. I would like thoughts and opinions please. Thank you!