u/vhmvd

Blocked before seeing again?

Hi all, I was hoping to get this off my chest just because I don’t feel very good.

I hooked up with a guy back in March who was visiting from another country and it was great. Good conversation, chemistry, etc. we exchanged numbers and kept in touch over Grindr.

He messaged me a few weeks ago telling me he would be back in my city and that he’d be up for meeting up again and looking forward to it. So I made sure for him to let me know the dates and I would make time for him when he was here.

Cut to today, was just checking to see if I should message him to see if he knew what dates he would be here. Saw his distance wasn’t that far from me so I thought I’d message to see if he was in town.

I saw him online and thought I’d message him just to see. No response but it’s been a few hours and saw that he blocked me.

I sent him a text as I have his number but I’m not expecting a reply.

Now I know he doesn’t owe me anything, not even a reply but I found it so weird that he blocked me after the last interaction we had was about meeting up and also felt like a positive thing.

It’s now got me questioning if I had done anything wrong. I just find it so odd.

Anyone else had this experience? I’m sure a few of you have.

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u/vhmvd — 19 hours ago