u/violetskies46

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Deeply in love, but worried about upcoming engagement

Hi everyone! I am 19 years old and my boyfriend and I have been dating for most of high school (him one grade above me) and through his mission and our first year of college together. I truly feel that our relationship has helped me grow closer to the Savior. I love him beyond words, and he brings out every bit of the best in me.

Recently when I was with my parents, they brought up that my boyfriend had just talked to them to ask their blessing to propose. I wasn’t completely surprised, since we’ve talked a lot about our future together, including marriage, family, and building a life centered on the gospel of Jesus Christ, but I really didn't realize it might happen this soon.

My parents and his are, of course, elated, as we all are very close, and I think they discussed us possibly being married and sealed within a few months (near the end of the year).

I’ve been praying extensively trying to seek guidance from the Lord, and I do feel peace about him and our relationship, and I'm truly certain that he is my partner for eternity. I just feel a little uncertain about the timing. I don't really know if this is normal? I'd love to hear some of your advice/life experiences!

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u/violetskies46 — 7 days ago