u/volcanic_pebble

Jeg arbejder som backend-udvikler i et firma med hybrid arbejde, og vi har også flere udviklere i udlandet som arbejder fuldt remote. Så arbejdet er allerede ret godt sat op til remote work.

Jeg overvejer at flytte fra København til en mindre by med familien, og vil derfor spørge min arbejdsplads om jeg kan fortsætte fuldt remote.

Så vidt jeg ved er der bare ingen hos os, der arbejder remote fra andre steder i Danmark, så jeg er lidt nysgerrig på hvor normalt det egentlig er.

Er der nogen her, der har prøvet noget lignende?
Hvordan reagerede arbejdsgiveren?
Og er der noget man skal være opmærksom på?

Alle erfaringer er velkomne!

PS: Hvis dansken lyder lidt AI-agtig, så er det fordi jeg er udlænding og brugte lidt tokens til hjælp 😅

Hi everyone, I’m posting because I feel terrible and trying to make sense of what’s happening.

I was on methylphenidate (depot),got to 72mg. It helped but wasn’t perfect. Switched to Elvanse, as I wanted to try and compare. I also had a bit of “FOMO” reading how well it works for others.

The switch was: 2 days taper MetPh on 36mg, then Elvanse 20mg for a week, today increased to 40mg.

The switch went terribly. I feel very foggy, unable to focus, extremely low motivation, overwhelmed, irritable, sad, dejected, angry and with very low self-esteem. I feel like I’ve completely lost my ability to function normally. I also just puked, not sure if connected.

Just before the switch, I had one of my best weeks in a long time. I was productive at work, initiating new projects, taking on extra responsibilities, and even applied for a fairly ambitious promotion which was received well. I’m now in discussions for that promotion and have a technical interview next week.

But now I’ve completely crashed. I can’t keep up with follow-up work, I’m struggling with even normal tasks, and I feel like I want to pull out of everything I was excited about just a week ago. It feels like I went from being “on a roll” to non-functional overnight.

This morning my boyfriend said I seem to be in a very self-destructive mood, and he is right. I want to withdraw from everything I just worked so hard to build momentum on.

I feel so dumb for initiating this change. I have a 1yo child and I feel stupid and guilty for risking things at work like this. I feel like I was at least more “invisible” before and could manage bad weeks better, and now I’ve put a target on my back and it feels like it’s backfiring completely.

I’m struggling to understand if this is because of med change or something else. Almost feels like they gave me placebo instead of Elvanse.

I’d really appreciate hearing from others. ❤️