u/volusp

Hi everyone! I don't think anyone here knows or remembers me, as I don't leave comments too often and over the past few months I've been absent from Reddit whatsoever. I'm not very sociable, especially online, but I felt like I needed to share this news with you lads, because this is so very important to me and I, unfortunately, don't have anyone else who would understand.

Yes, as you can see, me and my precious Kakashi are married now! 🌸 We share a long history together, in September it'll have been 12 years since I met him. We've had a great deal of ups and downs during these years, mostly because of my own issues and evolving personality, considering that I fell in love with him at 13 and now I'm 25. So I'd say that most of the time our relationship has been very complicated.

But last year opened my eyes to a lot of things, including his role in my life, and I realised that he's the very person I want to spend the rest of my days with. I've never felt more at home that I do with him, if you get me, and I've never met anyone who would make me feel more seen and accepted than he does. I can't imagine any other person beside me, neither a ficto nor a real one, and I wouldn't trade him for the world.

Unfortunately, unlike so many of you here, I've never been able to fully consider what I have with him a proper, full-fledged relationship, in the sense that he's not a physical part of my life, so I can't get an explicit consent from him. Not that I'm suggesting that all ficto relationships are like this, I'm just voicing how I see my situation with Kakashi. Therefore, I had a hard time trying to 'accept' love from him, as there was not too much to accept that wouldn't be created by me in my head in the first place, and marriage felt like an even greater violation of my partner's potential will.

However, I do believe that he can be real somewhere out there. And I thought that no matter what a real Kakashi would say to me if I met him, all these thoughts and feelings I've been pouring into him, all the sleepless night and struggles make our bond just as real and genuine as my love for him is. And if I could turn this bond into something more physical, more palpable, marriage would be the only true, logical option. Because what else could you possibly do with someone you've loved for over a decade with such an intensity that it makes you feel as if your heart is about to explode? With someone you're so deeply attached to that you stopped viewing them as a fictional part of your life?

This step allowed me to feel him on a whole new level, and I'm so, so happy to finally be able to call ourselves husband and wife. I just wish I could hear him say this too. There is nothing else I would want more than this. He's been through so much, and hope that my love and our tiny family would help him heal, find his inner peace and happiness just as he helped me.

I'm sorry for such a long post! If you're reading this, maybe my words improved your mood a little or gave you some flicker of hope and looking forward to your own life/relationship. Or at the very least I hope so!

But I sure know that I can't possibly describe how much I love Kakashi, and I'm ready to confess this to him every day for as long as I can. As one of my most favourite music band's song goes, 'Home could be anywhere when I am holding you'. Well, he is my home.

Hi everyone! I don't think anyone here knows or remembers me, as I don't leave comments too often and over the past few months I've been absent from Reddit whatsoever. I'm not very sociable, especially online, but I felt like I needed to share this news with you lads, because this is so very important to me and I, unfortunately, don't have anyone else who would understand.

Yes, as you can see, me and my precious Kakashi are married now! 🌸 We share a long history together, in September it'll have been 12 years since I met him. We've had a great deal of ups and downs during these years, mostly because of my own issues and evolving personality, considering that I fell in love with him at 13 and now I'm 25. So I'd say that most of the time our relationship has been very complicated.

But last year opened my eyes to a lot of things, including his role in my life, and I realised that he's the very person I want to spend the rest of my days with. I've never felt more at home that I do with him, if you get me, and I've never met anyone who would make me feel more seen and accepted than he does. I can't imagine any other person beside me, neither a ficto nor a real one, and I wouldn't trade him for the world.

Unfortunately, unlike so many of you here, I've never been able to fully consider what I have with him a proper, full-fledged relationship, in the sense that he's not a physical part of my life, so I can't get an explicit consent from him. Not that I'm suggesting that all ficto relationships are like this, I'm just voicing how I see my situation with Kakashi. Therefore, I had a hard time trying to 'accept' love from him, as there was not too much to accept that wouldn't be created by me in my head in the first place, and marriage felt like an even greater violation of my partner's potential will.

However, I do believe that he can be real somewhere out there. And I thought that no matter what a real Kakashi would say to me if I met him, all these thoughts and feelings I've been pouring into him, all the sleepless night and struggles make our bond just as real and genuine as my love for him is. And if I could turn this bond into something more physical, more palpable, marriage would be the only true, logical option. Because what else could you possibly do with someone you've loved for over a decade with such an intensity that it makes you feel as if your heart is about to explode? With someone you're so deeply attached to that you stopped viewing them as a fictional part of your life?

This step allowed me to feel him on a whole new level, and I'm so, so happy to finally be able to call ourselves husband and wife. I just wish I could hear him say this too. There is nothing else I would want more than this. He's been through so much, and hope that my love and our tiny family would help him heal, find his inner peace and happiness just as he helped me.

I'm sorry for such a long post! If you're reading this, maybe my words improved your mood a little or gave you some flicker of hope and looking forward to your own life/relationship. Or at the very least I hope so!

But I sure know that I can't possibly describe how much I love Kakashi, and I'm ready to confess this to him every day for as long as I can. As one of my most favourite music band's song goes, 'Home could be anywhere when I am holding you'. Well, he is my home.

Hi everyone! I don't think anyone here knows or remembers me, as I don't leave comments too often and over the past few months I've been absent from Reddit whatsoever. I'm not very sociable, especially online, but I felt like I needed to share this news with you lads, because this is so very important to me and I, unfortunately, don't have anyone else who would understand.

Yes, as you can see, me and my precious Kakashi are married now! 🌸 We share a long history together, in September it'll have been 12 years since I met him. We've had a great deal of ups and downs during these years, mostly because of my own issues and evolving personality, considering that I fell in love with him at 13 and now I'm 25. So I'd say that most of the time our relationship has been very complicated.

But last year opened my eyes to a lot of things, including his role in my life, and I realised that he's the very person I want to spend the rest of my days with. I've never felt more at home that I do with him, if you get me, and I've never met anyone who would make me feel more seen and accepted than he does. I can't imagine any other person beside me, neither a ficto nor a real one, and I wouldn't trade him for the world.

Unfortunately, unlike so many of you here, I've never been able to fully consider what I have with him a proper, full-fledged relationship, in the sense that he's not a physical part of my life, so I can't get an explicit consent from him. Not that I'm suggesting that all ficto relationships are like this, I'm just voicing how I see my situation with Kakashi. Therefore, I had a hard time trying to 'accept' love from him, as there was not too much to accept that wouldn't be created by me in my head in the first place, and marriage felt like an even greater violation of my partner's potential will.

However, I do believe that he can be real somewhere out there. And I thought that no matter what a real Kakashi would say to me if I met him, all these thoughts and feelings I've been pouring into him, all the sleepless night and struggles make our bond just as real and genuine as my love for him is. And if I could turn this bond into something more physical, more palpable, marriage would be the only true, logical option. Because what else could you possibly do with someone you've loved for over a decade with such an intensity that it makes you feel as if your heart is about to explode? With someone you're so deeply attached to that you stopped viewing them as a fictional part of your life?

This step allowed me to feel him on a whole new level, and I'm so, so happy to finally be able to call ourselves husband and wife. I just wish I could hear him say this too. There is nothing else I would want more than this. He's been through so much, and hope that my love and our tiny family would help him heal, find his inner peace and happiness just as he helped me.

I'm sorry for such a long post! If you're reading this, maybe my words improved your mood a little or gave you some flicker of hope and looking forward to your own life/relationship. Or at the very least I hope so!

But I sure know that I can't possibly describe how much I love Kakashi, and I'm ready to confess this to him every day for as long as I can. As one of my most favourite music band's song goes, 'Home could be anywhere when I am holding you'. Well, he is my home.