Btw jokes aside am very bored for many days and i have read alot of post from this sub so my turn now.
Looking for my future one 🔍 i save myself for you alot jab ao gi to camping pr chaly gy
Tbh now that am on summer break i literally havent talked to anyone in so long and just have fun of conversation.
Hey i need to make friends , how do you guys just dm someone and talk? How do i dm a girl for the sake of talking without coming off as a creep? I tried guys but it never ever works out so not this time.
Another question what if they treat me as another guy in girls dm lowkey ew
I just need someone to talk to so give me tips.
Disclaimer this is gpt and might feel generic but aint no way am gonna summarize 5 pages of just brain dump.
This is kind of a random thought, but I want a reality check.
I've always been the type of person who keeps a very small circle. I get attached to a few people and a few things, and I care about them a lot.
For example, if I find a song that I absolutely love, it feels special because it's *my thing*. And if suddenly everyone around me starts listening to it, a weird part of me feels like it lost something. Like it isn't mine anymore. I know it sounds strange, but that's honestly how it feels.
The same thing kind of applies to friendships.
I don't want a girlfriend right now. I'm young, and I personally believe in dating with the intention of marriage. Since marriage isn't something I can think about yet, I'm not really interested in dating.
What I do want is a really close friend.
Someone who's the first person I tell things to. If it was hot today, I'd tell them. If I hated the food I ate, I'd tell them. If something amazing happened, I'd tell them. If something terrible happened, I'd tell them.
And they'd do the same with me.
Not because we're dating, but because we're each other's favorite person.
I know that sounds intense, but I don't mean controlling or possessive. I just mean having that one person who genuinely gets you.
The reason I imagine this as a girl is probably because I find it easier to picture that kind of emotional connection with a girl. But I genuinely don't mean it in a romantic sense.
The weird thing is that I'm not socially awkward.
I can talk to almost anyone. People usually see me as a pretty chill guy. The problem is that almost every conversation stays surface level.
I don't struggle to meet people.
I struggle to connect with people.
I only really have two friends from middle school that I still talk to, and even then it's maybe once or twice a month.
Most things I do, I do alone. I play games, study, work on my own stuff, and generally keep to myself. And when I do get close to someone, I tend to brain-dump every random thought in my head.
I think what I really want is one person I can be completely weird around without feeling judged.
Someone who understands my weirdness, and lets me understand theirs.
So here's my question
I feel like everyone got their own group already and everyone is so nonchalant they already have friends they dont care yada yada i mean why live on hard mode for no reason and why not find a friend like that huh i dont even have cousins so lol gg
Is this actually realistic, or have I built up an imaginary friendship in my head that sounds good but rarely exists in real life