I think I have RJ
During our first date, he already opened up to me about his past relationships and his flings. It didn’t really bother me as much because I didn’t really mind, I had the same amount of exes except I never got into flings. We’ve been dating for over 6 months now.
Two months ago, his ex reached out to him out of the blue. She was asking him how to get rid of love handles. I gave my boyfriend permission to reply to her to see know the underlying intent of her message but he immediately told her that he didn’t really wanna continue talking to her, and made it clear he had a girlfriend then blocked her. I wasn’t bothered until she messaged him again on his other account, saying “You forgot to block me here too.” He blocked her on everything. My boyfriend does his best to reassure me whenever I overthink shit. It’s my problem.
That ex was his first love. They dated when we were in high school. They tried dating again in 2024 for a few months but failed because she didn’t change and was still controlling. I don’t know. I feel ugh. I was a mess when she reached out. I wanted my boyfriend to be a bit meaner with his approach but he called me out, and said there’s no point of being mean to someone if they’re not being mean, which is true. He’s too nice. He didn’t really like the way I was planning to confront her if she ever messages again. To me, her trying to taunt him was pretty mean. Why would you go and message your ex’s other account after he just told you he has a girlfriend then blocked you?
I’ve been okay. My boyfriend and I had a long conversation about it. It was going so well until I was looking through my boyfriend’s photodump account, her comments were there. Photos from different posts, I don’t even know if it was her or one of the girls he dated—either way, I felt off. I mean he did mention he was gonna delete the comments right after, I just don’t know how to bring up the photos without sounding like a control freak. My boyfriend doesn’t really mind me asking to delete remnants of his past, I just feel guilty having to ask him. It doesn’t help that I am also on my period right now, my emotions are all over the place.