u/wetpiano

I (29F) and my husband (29M) want to start trying for kids relatively soon. He is the youngest of 5, and all his siblings have had 1 or 2 kids already so we don’t want our kids to be so much younger than their cousins. We love to travel and really want to do a PNW or Yellowstone trip next year, but also we want to potentially start TTC this fall. The selfish part of me wants to hold off another year, but the reasonable part of me says we should probably start trying. I keep changing my mind almost every day, does anyone else feel the same or similar?