u/whoisthat999

Is there any hope left? 34F

Hi, I am writing this completely heartbroken and hopeless. I know there are many people here asking the same question but I feel like my life is over regarding dating. I am soon turning 34 and stuck in a super abusive relationship (actually engaged for 3 years) and I am afraid of breaking up because I feel like I will never again find a partner. This relationship just drained me in so many ways and it looked good on paper but he was very emotionally abusive. And I was so stupid and gave him so many chances.

Are here any girls who met their husband after 35? And even had children? And how did you cope with dating and these negative thoughts about dating? (aka. "I am too old now" "Men will not be interested in me or in a relationship because I am 34")

And yes, I am now focusing on my career and try to make new friends it's just hard for me because I actually isolated myself for years.

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u/whoisthat999 — 1 day ago