Codependency
So me and my partner both have BPD. I become bed ridden and snappy when I’m in a slump and he loses all motivation and becomes suicidal. We’ve been together for almost 3 years now and recently, he told me that my codependency on him is too much. I don’t know how to get a hold on it cuz I don’t know how to give myself the motivation to get out of bed and do better. I’m trying really hard but I’m struggling.