
I call that person a charioteer who restrains arisen anger, others are merely holding the reins (DhP 221 - 224)
221
One should abandon anger and renounce conceit,
and break free from every fetter;
for one unattached to name and form,
owning nothing, suffering does not follow.
222
One who restrains arisen anger,
as one halts a veering chariot;
I call that person a charioteer,
others are merely holding the reins.
223
Overcome anger with non-anger,
the bad with what is good;
overcome stinginess with giving,
and false speech with truth.
224
Speak what is true, yield not to anger,
when asked, give even if you only have a little;
by [cultivating] these three qualities,
one goes to the company of the gods.
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Key Terms:
- conceit [māna] ≈ self-view expressed as comparison—seeing oneself as superior, inferior, or equal; the persistent “I am” conceit (asmimāna) that underlies identification
- fetter [saṃyojana] ≈ chain, bond, link, thing which binds
- name and form [nāmarūpa] ≈ mentality and materiality—the integrated structure of mental capacities (intention, attention, contact, feeling, perception) and physical form that together constitute and sustain an individual being
- suffering [dukkha] ≈ discomfort, unpleasantness, discontentment, dissatisfaction, stress, pain, disease, i.e. mild or intense suffering
- anger [kodha] ≈ rage, wrath, fury, indignation
- charioteer [sārathi] ≈ driver
- non-anger [akkodha] ≈ patience, forbearance, tolerance
- good [sādhu] ≈ virtuous, wholesome, beneficial
- stinginess [kadariya] ≈ miserliness, tight-fistedness
- giving [dāna] ≈ the act of giving or donating, with an intention to give
- true [sacca] ≈ accurate, correct
Image: White Buddha statue on body of water, Photo by Mattia Faloretti on Unsplash
Related Teachings:
- How a true person gives (AN 8.37)
- Ten ways to remove resentment (AN 10.80) - The Buddha shares ten ways to remove resentment by changing one’s perspective on harmful actions.
- Not retaliating against anger, one wins a battle hard to win (SN 7.3) - The Buddha teaches the brahmin Asurindaka Bhāradvāja, who had approached him with harsh words, how to respond to anger and how to win a hard battle.