u/wisp4400

I want to find some books to read in the gay genre that aren't dealing with coming out or coming of age which seems to be the majority of recommendations in the genre. I also enjoy those but I was wondering if there are any books people would recommend about gay adult men (later 20s or older) living life, dating and all that.

Any recommendations appreciated. Even better if the book exists in audio book format since that tends to be how i consume books right now.

Also does anyone have any good podcast recommendations related to gay life? I recently found sidenote by asap science had some episodes specifically about more gay topics and really enjoyed that so would be cool to find more interesting ones to listen to.