u/witchmo91

Look i know im gonna get myself absolutely railed in the comments but i just gotta say this . I don't like Mafuyu that much .and i don't like mafuyu together with Ritsuka. I have read deeply and understand mafuyu's pain . But man mafuyu's behavior , feelings towards Ritsuka just don't come off as sincere to me . I get the feeling of loss and trauma that's precisely why I don't like him being with Ritsuka . Mafuyu still seems stuck in his past . Sometimes it feels like he never knows when to draw the line between Past and present and its preety annoying. And him remembering his past with Yuki when he looks at Ritsuka or anything related to Ritsuka bothers me so much . Once or twice is enough. But when its all the time you are just doing the other person dirty specially when you have the personality of Mafuyu.

When I was watching the anime , Ritsuka kissed him and he saw Yuki that was the ickiest thing ever . IM sorry I understand remembering bad things but if it happens all the time you are just not ready for the other person . Mafuyu always always most of the times comes off someone who only thinks of Ritsuka as a replacement. I understand him but man he's fukin annoying when he does it .

I really wish they didn't end up together. I really wish Mafuyu actually took time to put the past behind and to treat Ritsuka with as much love as he is receiving from him.

Sure Mafuyu isn't a horrible person and someone suffering but to Ritsuka its just unfair to love someone wholeheartedly while he seems Ike replacement. Sometimes it feels like he doesn't even likes Ritsuka, but is only keeping him around because Ritsuka likes him .

And I also hated how they just started dating. My biggest pet peeve. I really think a gap taken for Mafuyu to develop feelind and show it would be better than straight up dating just because Ritsuka liked him . It feels so one sided to me I cannot even explain . Man trauma or not i would despise someone if they treated me like Mafuyu does to Ritsuka.

And I also think people give Mafuyu a lot of grace because he is the cute innocent traumatised bottom . Its like some people refuse to see how unfair he is to Ritsuka. IF Ritsuka was a little messy or toxic i wouldn't mind that much . But Ritsuka is the most genuine and lovable person ever . I kinda don't like Mafuyu for this . I truely wish they stayed friend .

Im not looking for a fight though I have felt this way for so long and I needed to let this out . I know people are gonna defend him at all costs though but still whenever I think deeply i just can't like him ​. this is a load off my chest . 😭💀

I really hate that i been in love with bl for a decade now and i have watched so little bl dramas . How do I put it . I tend to focus on the acting and most of the time it seems fake which leads me to thinking bad acting. I have tried watching multiple thai bl dramas and I have dropped so many of them because of how cringe the acting and the storyline seems to me. I also don't like when the bottoms act like complete toddlers .I like it when they are cute twinks I just don't like it when it starts feeling like a straight story just with the boy given the role of the women .

And people keep giving popular recommendation which quite doesn't hits it off for me .

So any non cringy bl dramas recommendation. .I tend to like Japanese dramas more because of the acting.

I am okay with simple quite drama so any masterpieces im missing out ?

I didn't like That 10 dancer drama much or heated rivalry too .I also watched this Chinese drama the spring sun Wakes up along the lines.

But I have watched dramas like my beautiful man , senpai you need a kiss or something like that . And i enjoyed these so much.

So any recommendations ? That makes you feel like YES I was missing out of this .

i truely have never ever hated any princess or villains as much as I hate Anna. Somehow it all makes sense to me.

But when it comes to Anna i just can't stand her . My problem with her . She acts like a toddler . I have felt this way since I first watched Frozen as a child but Anna came off as a typical sister who would always try to be little meek weak v-tim sister to get the attention. To me Anna seems to have a huge victim complex . She has so much self pity She forgets to actually use her brain.

She fell for the first man She interacted with , bought her to marry, asked for Elsa's permission and when Elsa refused She started throwing a tantrum acting crazy . The way she triggered me when she started triggering Elsa purposely by saying shit about love and stuff as if she knew better and taking her gloves off . People often make an remark " omg Anna did so much for her sister " how I see it. She was just fixing the dumb mistakes she made. If it wasn't for her Elsa wouldn't have left in first place and neither would she get angry.

Anna comes off as the pampered spoiled child to me cause her parents never told her that ELSA was locked away because she accidentally hurt her.

No matter what anyone says Anna seems so selfish to me . Cause she was acting as if Elsa wasn't deprived of love too and wasn't lonely even more so being in her room alone always.

Anna seems to hold a grudge like a toddler against Elsa 🫩because she didn't hang out as a kid . Not to say she is literally the most stupid and annoying characters i have ever come across . Its like she refuses to use her brain . And yes I know lonely means you seek attention but in her case it was very extreme .

Overall i just cannot bring myself to like her . She seems like the kind of person to always turn the narrative to make herself the v-tim . ​​

Tbh I would bitch slap someone like Anna if it was in real life. ​i don't think i have hated even any disney villains as much as I hate Anna and that has been since I was young.

And I cannot enjoy frozen because of that .