u/wthoct

what would u rather?

I often see this “memes” about how women only want rich guys rather than ‘good guys’ 🙄
it often say things like
6’4
millionaire
100 bodies
vs
5’7
rents an apartment
virgin

displaying having a lot of sexual encounters as bad
do u guys actually care if a guy it’s virgin or not? as long as he’s hot and actually loves me I guess I wouldn’t care probably would feel 100% insecure tho is it really that bad?

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u/wthoct — 2 days ago

being a femcel

im a 18 y/o virgin, I don’t consider myself as incredibly ugly but i’m overweight and have excessive body hair because of PMOS.
I like to think I have certain features that are good enough to pass through the social norms, but i’m Bi and not a single man or woman has been interested in me, and that’s kinda okay (? even tho I’ve been yearning for a relationship since i’m 13 Im trying to change that way of thinking.
one day I went out of campus to buy myself a drink, the guy behind the counter wasn’t my type at all yes, i allow myself to be picky but when he handed me my lemonade he said “i’m here to serve you” and he winked, i was genuinely so confused, is he being nice? is he being flirty? is he weird? is he just doing his job? I just said thanks and went on with my day.
so yesterday I was thinking, hypothetically, if this guy happened to ask for my phone number and we start ‘dating’ like going out but nothing official, would I be not consider a femcel anymore? or what if this hypothetical scenario happens to a much older femcel, would she still be a femcel after even having sex for the first time?
either way, I would never date a man, even tho i’m Bi i’m only perusing woman but that’s a different story.

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u/wthoct — 2 days ago