Not sure if this is appropriate for a post, but I think it's helpful
The amount of dms I've recieved from lurking men after posting on kibbe related reddits (not this one in particular) asking about my body is disgusting. If you're thinking about posting here or on reddits for specific IDs, you may benefit from turning dms off!
You deserve to stay safe and comfortable ladies!!
Catching the tail end of Tuesday, but hopefully that's okay! The ladies on D suggested I might be a FN so I thought I'd ask
Some other stuff if it's helpful:
- I'm about 5'6.5 and am told I look taller irl, but I think my skinniess also plays a part in that like with my limbs looking longer despite feeling proportionate length wise. I think overall I'm decently vertical with elongated limbs (no curve or width)
- I feel similar to Zoe Saldana and Kate moss in terms of my upper body and shoulder area who are DC and D, but maybe I’m FN?
- the skinniness and “flimsy” look of my arms are very commented on
- the purple dress is perhaps one of the most flattering one's I've worn, especially from 3/4 and the side, and it mostly honors vertical
- my favorite jeans are usually low waisted and straight legged, flare styles definitly do not look good, but skinny ones are okay
- thicker fabrics or ruching around the waist or upper hips makes me look boxier in a way that I think is unflattering
- I prefer how sleevless looks over pretty much any type of sleeve and often like the line from the strap or small sleeve that runs a line up my shoulders or diagonally to their corners
- upper garments with no structure in the shoulder makes me look disheveled rather than relaxed I feel, and overly structured and square ones look a little awkard and dwarfing. Regular t-shirts are so-so. I usually stick with crewnecks since I haven't found a single jacket that I like on me, but if there's too much bunching and the lines aren't straight/continuous it also looks awkward
- I think high straight chestlines that cover all my chest, or even halter styles that go all the way up look odd on me. to be fair that's moreso cause of my neck though, but tight necklines that go deeper in the middle or with a chest window are usually fine 🤔