I want to make a spell jar to bring someone closer to me and sweeten our relationship, we’re friends, but she’s special and I want to draw her in more, strengthen our bond, make her want me as much as I want her, and whichever direction our closeness takes us, I’ll be a happy girl.
Can someone run me through a simple step by step process to do this?
Or recommend a reliable source to learn from💜
Beginner here, struggling with doubting my abilities and thinking “I’m not a witch, my spells can’t be potent, they won’t work”
I’ve dabbled in witchcraft and spent thousands on witches and spells from the internet, with little to no results.
I tried doing my own spells, and I found that burning papers and the smell of the smoke it brings out just sticks everywhere in my little apartment :( I don’t have a balcony or a garden so all my work would be indoors or maybe near a window at best.
I’m not familiar with jars or how potent they are.
I’ve tried love spells on papers with symbols and herbs etc…
I’ve been trying to find people to cast for me, but I keep hearing mixed things, and everyone seems to swear that casting your own spells works much better…
I really want help kickstarting my journey…
My two most important things right now are academics/intellegence/memory/success.
And a specific person I want to get closer to, build trust, secure attachment, her to initiate more, build a strong loving foundation (not forcing romance, not forcing platonic, just in general, best friends, and if we ever BOTH wanted more, then so be it)
I would like to see movement on both of these areas…
I’d really appreciate your advice💜
I’d like someone to cast a memory/intellegence/exam success spell that can work ASAP!! Med school finals coming up :///
I also have a situation with a friend I’m trying to get closer to… things got complicated for a bit, feelings were involved, anxious (me) attachment vs avoidant (her), ghosted me for months, now back, good friends, but I want more initiation and to feel safe and for her to want me to be as close to her as much as I want her close to me… not forcing romance, nor forcing a platonic relationship, but getting closeness and trust and communication, less avoidance, more security, and just… lots of love :(( if we’re meant to be more then so be it but that’s not the point of the spell (I think she had feelings for me then ran away bc she got scared of her feelings once I started reciprocating… she tends to do that…)
Anyway lol two completely different scenarios…
I’ve spent thousands on Etsy witches before and nothing really worked (for other situations in the past, not for this)
Tried my own spells and same thing
I think my fear and doubt always get in the way
I don’t want to do dark magic or force things with her, but I am so desperate to get more from her.
In terms of exams I want something super potent and effective…
Again sorry for the randomness I’d appreciate some recommendations and tips❤️❤️
I keep seeing that it’s THE BIGGEST blocker of manifestation, subliminals, or any metaphysical or spiritual practices to get “what you want”…
As a woman in STEM/medicine, science has always been the thing I rely on.
I’ve dabbled in witchcraft, spent thousands of euros on Etsy witches it’s actually insane, done my own stuff, even demon magic. I go through phases of thinking it REALLY works, then I’m like eh, coincidence.
Same thing with subliminals, I know that there’s been a lot of neuroscience backing it up but if I have doubts then I’d essentially be blocking myself from seeing the outcomes or unlocking their full potential.
Manifestation has always been iffy to me because I’m a huge skeptic and think it’s too fragile, that if in the slightest way my belief goes down, it’s not going to happen.
Some thing with
And how can I influence it?
Especially if it’s external!!
Relationships, friendships, love, money, academia, career, physical changes that aren’t just weight changes but specific things, face, etc…
How can I influence the exterior, especially SPs, and I’m not talking school crushes etc, I’m in my mid twenties, navigating life, friendships, abandonment issues, anxious attachment dealing with avoidants, LOTS going on.
I find affirmations a bit meh, I can only tell myself “I am a person who X happens to” so much…
Do I believe it? Idk. Do I want to? Absolutely.
I am the person SP wants to make the effort to communicate better.
I am the person SP wants to initiate more.
I am a person who gets 100% in exams.
Etcetc etc
And honestly it’s less romance and more platonic deep connections idk if that makes a difference
Confidence not so much, objectively I know I’m a badass, I’m smart I’m funny I’m lowkey pretty I’m social I’m cool I have nice hobbies I’m an athlete I’m qualifying as a fucking doctor in less than 12 months and I’m independent and loving and caring and and and and…
But why, when it comes to things like, weight loss, flat chest, intelligence boost, SP stuff, manifesting texts or whatever, career opportunities, applications, etcetc, why do I feel like they’re not more likely to come to me just bc I’m doing inner or metaphysical work or manifestation or spells or subliminals etcetc etc…
PLEASE
I DO WANT TO BELIEVE
I WANT THINGS TO WORK OUT
SOOOO BADLY
I want spells to work
I want manifestation to work
I want subliminals to work
I want I want I waaannnttttt
HOW DO I GET
What do I do?
Shadow work?
Self concept work?
What even is that?
How can I finally start seeing results that I CANNOT deny so I can believe?