u/xiaxianyueshi

Image 1 — My qpp and I have known and loved each other for 24 years 🩷
Image 2 — My qpp and I have known and loved each other for 24 years 🩷

My qpp and I have known and loved each other for 24 years 🩷

First picture is from her 30th birthday ten years ago, second is from when we were 16/17 and just kissed "for fun."

She's aroace, and while I'm alloromantic I have no romantic feelings for her, and this is the best relationship I've been in, and we've officially been in a qpr for three years (but honestly at least nine). I love talking to her, we can both be way more open with each other than anyone else, and I walk away from every interaction with a full heart. Even when we disagree or need to set a boundary it never feels difficult to talk about it, no one is resentful over mistakes, and we always show up for each other.

It's just so good. We're talking about moving in together if we ever find a big enough place (we both have a need for space and alone time) and can afford it and I just know I'm going to spend the rest of my life with her regardless.

I hope absolutely everyone who wants this kind of relationship finds it and feels this happiness and fulfillment 🩷 Thank you for sharing in my queer joy!

u/xiaxianyueshi — 5 days ago