[discussion] How to tell apart fetish requests from non fetish?
I'm a new asmr content creator and i only do roleplays. I have never done any nsfw content or anything flirty. I get request sometimes for very specific things like to do a flirty kidnapper roleplay or to do a video where i show how to tie scarves (it sounds innocent ik but the way it was written made me think it might be not an innocent request), i havent done any similar content or anything fashion related and i wonder how to distinguish actual asmr trigger request from those that might be fetish related? I wonder if i am too careful and i dont want to dismiss people just wanting to have their favorite trigger shown or if it is better to be cautious?
update: thank you to everyone who replied!! i really appreciate it, because as a new creator i'm still not great at establishing boundaries, but you guys have helped me see that i can just fully not do anything at the cost of my comfort. I will not be engaging with any of the comments that set off any alarms in my head. Also i appreciate the more specific advice on how to tell the requests apart better!! Thank you!!!