u/yongzhong26_

Girlfriend and I have been together for 4 months. Everything seems to be going well but one thing is bugging me and I am not sure if I should consider this as a disrespectful behaviour or not.

Whenever I take her on a nice dinner date, day trip etc (ones I pay for and organise of course) she always posts photos of herself (usually ones I have taken) or the place we visit... but never any of the ones I am in.

I consider these as shared experiences as a couple, yet she consistently presents them to her friends/family as experiences of just her and that I should be unknown.

I don't post any photos at all and keep relatively quiet on social media.

Please note that I have met her close friends and family members, so I don't think she needs to keep me off there in fear that they will say 'who is that?', unless she has another family member who will be asking questions.

Anyone else had this? I have seen girls post photos on dates showing off their boyfriends/dates and/or at least showing a leg or something but for these I could just be a bystander taking these.

This girl I have been seeing for 3 months has kindly cooked for me a couple of times and earlier this week cooked a meal at hers and then got an Uber over (its a 25 minute drive from hers to mine) and we had a great evening 2 days ago (we H,H&H).

However, today she popped up saying she was going to cook for me again, and facetimed me whilst cooking the food. But when I said let me book the Uber for her to come over, she said she wasn't going to come, and had work to do and will send the food to me instead.

So I told her I prefer it when she comes over (and presumed that's what was happening tonight) and we eat her food together, and that I appreciate the gesture, but I will sort my own food for tonight. She seemed quite upset, but I said I appreciate quality time with her in person...

Was I too cold with this? Or should I have booked the Uber and accepted the food?

I have been dating this girl (she is 29 years old, I am 27) for just over 2 months and its been going generally well.

For the last 4 weekends I have spent the majority of it with her - with last weekend being one where I spent pretty much the whole weekend with her.

She initiates pretty much 80% now.

However, this weekend I needed to have some time by myself - catch up with work, gym, see friends etc. And have some time off. On Friday she asked me if I wanted to do something and I said I was busy catching up with work and seeing friends for the World Cup.

By Sunday called me saying how can I 'take this much time away from her', and that if I can go 'a week or more without seeing her she will lose interest, and find other stuff, or people to go out with'.

I just responded calmy saying I was busy this time and that I would love to see her next weekend, but she was acting annoyed. Lol.

How do you deal with stuff like this? I don't want to seem cold, but then I have a life to live. I have read 3% man multiple times, and know the concepts pretty well. But every scenario is different.

I want to see how you guys would respond to this sort of thing? Is she communicating something or is it a test?