My straight friend cheated on his wife with me. What should I do?
I need only older man advice please.
I’m in my 20s, he is in his 50s and has a family.
We met through work earlier this year, seeing each other weekly for about three months. Work ended but we stayed in contact.
We hit it off very quickly. I didn't want anything from him just to be friends and hang out.
He was curious and started asking about gay sex.
I told i was attracted to him and i started flirting with him several times. He liked it. He was alone at home for a week and tried to get me to give him a blowjob once, but I turned him down.
While i was moving. Second time i invited him to see my new place then he tried to ask a bj again and this time I didn't refuse. I wanted to do it and asked him this is what you want too? He said yes. He wanted to cum in my mouth because his wife doesn't allow that.
After he came I saw that he was confused a bit.
It happened, two days later he messaged me just once saying he can’t come to meet up for the next time. But he never told me I shouldn't contact him ever again.
He blocked me everywhere so he didn't got my messages. When I called him from a different number, he hung up on me after 5 sec.
I feel bad because he led on as a friend over several months and feel used like he just wanted to get sucked.
I don't know if it's true, but he hasn't cheated on his wife before me in the last 16 years.
Since his behavior hurt me, I’m planning to tell his wife everything. But many people advise me to not do it.
I have no idea if he feels ashamed or what and I’ll probably never find out.
What would be the right decision?