r/gayyoungold

Hi. Im a 22 year old bi guy. I am an electrician and on weekends I have been doing extra work on my own.

This guy (mid to late 50s) hired me to work on his new AirBnB pods. He has about 6 of them. Just basic electrical work. Nothing fancy. He hangs around whilst I am working sometimes. We chat. I did tell him i was bi and I told him I recently broke up with my girlfriend etc.

Since then he has been very like touchy with me. Like my arm and stuff not anywhere private and he goes around topless sometimes and he wears extremely tight shorts and it is driving me crazy.

I dont know if it is intentional or not but the struggle is pretty real. He is definitely gay but not sure if i am too young for him

Im 67 always preferred younger-- as I have gotten older the greater the age gap the hotter it is for me, if you do respond could you state your age and the range in age gap you prefer and detail of why would be great as well

I am 22..I started hooking up with a guy (now 59) a year and a half ago. He was married to a woman but he was openly gay to her and they were more like companions. They slept in two different rooms. I regularly stayed over nights etc and while I never really saw her, there arrangement was clear.

Recently he ended his relationship situation and has decided to get a divorce. He has his own place and he asked me to move in. He said it feels strange living alone. I was kinda buzzing but some people find it weird. I really like him though.

Is moving in a step too far given the situation so far. Anyone deal with similar.

I'm 30 years old and I'm interested in men over 50, but finding one is really difficult. There are also quite a few people who say they are looking for someone younger, hairless, or even feminine. Are most of the mature men around you like this, or are they only in this group?

I hooked up with a tourist who visited my city. We connected via an app. He must be late 60s. I went to his hotel. As he opened the door, i found a half naked man in his shorts with a pointing big bulge. We didn’t really talk apart from brief greetings then he peeled my clothes off and led me to the bed. When he took off his shorts, it revealed his well endowed manhood, not much in the length but more in the girth. When i touched it, it was as hard as a younger man. I was thinking to myself that he was super healthy and strong until I touched something in his ball sack. It felt like a hard stick inside, obviously not natural. But I didn’t say anything.
It took us awhile before he could get it in. I felt pain at first but surprisingly, he was more gentle than I expected from his look. Then there he went on and on fucking me non stop for over an hour. We stopped because i needed to rest and i needed to leave soon.
We had some talk after. He admitted that he had penile implant for a few years. He said he lost about 1.5 inches from the operation. (?)
He had 4 orgasms but didn’t cum.(?)
Then he told me his record was 13 orgasm in 3 hours. (?)
Not sure if he was bragging or else but i had a good time with this guy.

Did anyone had experience with a penile implant as well?

I'm 19m, gay, with a strong preference for guys in their 30s and 40s, also into guys in their 50s quite often. I read and deeply enjoyed Marguerite Yourcenar's historical novel Memoirs of Hadrian, which is a fictionalized account of Hadrian's life through his eyes after decades of extensive research by the author. Yourcenar was a lesbian, and she wrote Hadrian as a gay man in the book, with particular attention to his relationship to his younger lover Antinous. They have an approximately 36 year age gap, with most of the relationship taking place with Antinous at 17-19, Hadrian at 53-55. Hadrian deified Antinous after his death, but even in life has a worshipful view towards him.

Of course any modern code of ethics views the concept of "boy favorites" and pederasty with underage boys as immoral (I do too), but I find myself very drawn to this dynamic as a young adult with the older men I'm attracted to. The way Yourcenar writes Hadrian's attraction to Antinous makes it an almost equalizing force between the two of them, that despite him being emperor, Antinous is his equal partner because of how adored he is. The mutual worship is very beautiful and idyllic to me. It seems the most common dynamic for people who desire gay age gap connections is a daddy/boy dynamic, which I also enjoy, but I really want to pursue this emperor/boy favorite dynamic further with older guys if they're interested in it as well.

Edit: I'm not looking for DMs or for guys on here to pursue this with. I don't do online only relationships. I posted this with the intention of starting a discussion about this type of relationship.

So, I was a professor at a local New Orleans university, and there was a young Creole guy who was determined to bag me. He was very attractive and a nice young man. But, guess what? I liked my job more than I liked him.

Flash forward to years later and I am no longer teaching at that university Due to a career change. I see him online and he tells me he always wanted me and that he actually has an 11 inch dick. I tell him I am definitely not a bottom. He says OK, I will bottom for you. We end up meeting the next day and he was DEFINITELY NOT a bottom. He could hardly take it. I gave up after a while as I didn’t want tocause him discomfort. Overall, we still had fun anyway. An 11 inch dick is difficult orally and like I said, I am not a bottom and not interested in in that. Life is definitely not like porn and those guys who can take a foot are earning their pay. Lol

Hey guys!!

I am a 24 years old and I love older men. The issue is I am not that confident because of my physique and also because I have never been with a man.

I don't know but I keep overthinking that maybe my lack of experience will turn people away. I like to bottom so I don't know if tops prefer someone who has had experience being with a man before.

Just curious about this , maybe I am just overthinking. Do you guys even care about this?

I’ve recently come to the terms with what I’ve been trying to push down for the last 10 or so years, I’m bisexual. On top of this, throughout these 10 years I have been unable to stop fantasizing about older men, and cock.

I truly don’t even know where to begin unpacking these feelings, desires and wishes. It feels freeing to actually type it out and get out in the air, but I haven’t told anyone so in a way I’m still alone in these feelings. Any resources you could send my way to help me work through this? Anyone who found themselves in my position (whether presently or in the past) and how it worked out for them I’d love to hear from you. At this point I’ll take any advice. I’m open to chatting and making friends as well. Thank you, I joined the subreddit so excited to talk with you all more.