I wanted to see if anyone in here makes emergency response procedures/checklists for buildings and companies. Its something I would love to do, any advice? and how did you get into it?
Some background information. I don’t like my family they’re toxic and I’m the black sheep unfortunately… I’m 17m and graduated high school back in June. Over the past several years I’ve been doing anything to distance myself from my family, which includes working a lot more to the point of working 3 jobs at once then I burned out and quit 2. My plan was to work the next 3-4 months and save, apply to become a flight attendant at 18 (Oct 27) then eventually move to Chicago end of year or new years.
Today I got home from work at 12:15am (I worked from 11am-6pm then went to a coffee shop to make content for my social media and back to working 8pm-12am) I try to avoid being at home whenever possible because it’s constant arguing and I don’t even feel comfortable. I walk in, change, fill my water and on the way to my room my mom calls me and asks “u were working from the morning till now?”
Me: “yea…” (like everyday if u haven’t noticed)
Her: “where’d u eat?”
Me: “why do u care?”
Her: “didn’t I say u eat at home?”
Me: “I don’t want to”
Her: “will see when ur dad comes, ur gonna finish work or when u have a break ur coming home to eat and sit”
Me: “I do not want to talk to u or anyone in this house”
Her: “u don’t have a family to ask about or siblings?”
Me: “I don’t wanna talk to any of u except the siblings I talk to.”
Her: “who do u talk to”
Me: “thats not ur business”
Her: “I’m changing the way I treat u with respect and calm will see” (excuse tf out of me… respect… calm… yea right)
Me: yea u treat me really good I forgot. You think making me come is gonna make me wanna talk to u? Honey whatever happens I do not wanna talk to u or anyone as a matter of fact.”
Her: “will see when ur dad comes”
Me: “are you done?”
Her: “and NAME and NAME your always on the phone with and going out with (my besties) ur not allowed to talk to them. Im gonna tell their moms.”
Me: “excuse me… who do u think u are? I haven’t even been talking to them.”
Her: “yesterday u were at target with them.”
Me: “yea today I haven’t talked to them but that’s none of ur business who I talk to. Good night I’m done.”
Rewind to yesterday:
I left work at 6 with my besties to go to target and left my car at work cause we were going together and she called…
Her: “where are you?”
Me: “Target”
Her: “your car is here.”
Me: “yea I’m with NAME and NAME.”
Her: “ur always out, u don’t know how to sit at home”
Me: “no”
Her: “I came to sit with u”
Me: “I don’t wanna sit with u”
Her: “Will see later”
Me: “yea yea bye…” hung up.
Before saying I’m being disrespectful, I went through YEARS of her shouting and yelling everyday, also her and my dad put me through a lot emotional abuse, fat shaming and more. It got to a point where I would avoid my dad so not to have him make me weigh myself. I will admit I am a big bigger but not too dramatic and I’ve been trying for a few years to lose weight but that mixed with emotional abuse and bad mental health isn’t helping.
Ive worked at the place I’m at right now for over 3 years and I have been there more than in my own home. Before I would literally work 11-6 and sit there 6pm-12am on my laptop because I didn’t wanna go home. Even back in middle school before work I used to stay after school with my fav teacher to avoid home. I text my sister anytime I wanna go home before 12am to see if my dad is home or not. I never even feel rested and relaxed at home I’m always in high alert.
I went to the hospital after my shift at 12:45am to visit one of my 2 besties cause she got really sick and got her a charger. He called me at 1am asking where i am and I’m like “at the hospital I brought a charger to NAME and sit with her a bit” he’s like “ur gonna keep acting like this?” I’m like “like what?” He’s like “nothing dw bye” and hung up…
Now I’m thinking of applying for a full time customer service agent position at Chicago O’Hare. That makes it easier to move and get situated before becoming a flight attendant.
I know I’m getting to a breaking point, I’ve been known for the past few weeks, it’s always a cycle and something ends up happening where I crash and fuck up my own life.
Hi, I'm 17 (turn 18 in 10/27) and just started college to get a Criminal Justice: Emergency Management & Homeland Security degree. I was wondering what I can do right now? Anything I can get into to get side income, preferably remote or nearby (Live in Dearborn, MI).