AITA for leaving this handwritten note in the laundry room for my little brother?
I (24M) have been trying my best to keep up with “chores” around home. My brother’s current gf is a genuinely kind gal, except that my brother (19M) sometimes forgets to take care of his LAUNDRY loads when they’re done. This has not been bothering me as much recently as I am learning to be more than happy tidying the laundry room among the rest of the house).
However; I feel genuinely annoyed (a little offended) at the fact that whenever I end up tidying his laundry, I expectantly tidy his gf’s undergarments too. They’ve been together 2 odd years now. For some reason to me it’s been feeling more and more like an invasion of privacy to me, as well as to their relationship as she is supposed to end up becoming my sister in law (going on how much they already speak on this subject because my brother loves talking about having kids, marriage, etc).
I don’t know much regarding opposite sex sibling rivalries- in comparison to those of the same sex siblings. I have very little understanding how each portray their own dramatics, but I just have a hunch that because there are a few missing pieces here that I am unable to put together myself, that I need a push from internet friends/foes to help me figure out whether this is an asshole move or if i’m peaking at pettiness for the first time.
Not sure what type of reactions this will receive but since it’s my first post here and we in the 21st century, go ham.
TLTR: need of wanting unwanted surprises at home.