u/yuceann26

Ngayon ko lang nagets yung “it’s not about the ____” because you know what? It’s not about the bag

I’ll be the first one to admit that I’m a loser and that I have a temper na I’m trying to control naman
Earlier in August, my sister borrowed a bag from me para may magamit yung friend nya. Small bag. Para daw matchy yung group nila na may small bag. I was put on the spot so I relented. I don’t know her friend enough for me to be comfortable with lending my things to them.
Anyway, after their trip, I expected to get my bag back. Ang worst case scenario then for me was ibalik yung bag saakin na madumi. Pero lo and behold, may mas malala pa pala. Wala na palang balikan 🤣
My sister told me a few days after the trip na she told her friend daw na no need to give it back. Sabi ko ay hindi ko pinapamigay yung bag, akala ko naman that’s it na. Nasabi ko na, kaya I just need to wait for them to give my bag back. But today, I learned na talagang pinanindigan ng kapatid ko na ipamigay yung bag ko. Sa inis ko, I posted somewhere about this incident (which is wrong) tapos nagreply yung kapatid ko na akala daw kase nya ok lang dahil hindi ko naman na ginagamit. Then she added more issues to the point na by the end of her message, ako na ang mali at ang sama sama ko nang tao.

It was just a small nike bag worth less than 1k
Was it really worth it for all this drama?
Yes, yes it is. Because it’s not about the bag, I could live without that bag, I rarely used that bag. It was never about the bag.

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u/yuceann26 — 1 day ago