u/zaddysaturn

I have been talking to this guy. We used to talk and planned to meet back in 2023 but our relation went sour after our chats got a little intimate. He went cold on me that time and I got annoyed so I removed him from my socials. He tried readding me and I flipped on him for being cold on me then removed him again. Now in 2026, I randomly re-added him after he came to mind, and we have been talking for several months again. We have planned to meet, but he says he wants to wait a little for his hair to grow out from chemotherapy so he can feel a little more confident. After talking almost every few days for months, again, our conversation got heated and then he went cold again. He attributed the incident in 2023 to him being awkward. This time idk. We haven't spoken properly for a couple weeks now. Just a few replies and likes on each other's stories, but it is not the same. I know he's just had a rough time with his health, so I'm trying to show him some grace. I am mostly frustrated that he pulls away when the conversation gets dense and intimate (even though he initiates it?). He has also told me he's never been in a relationship before so he probably genuinely doesn't have proper experience, but it still upsets me to be on the receiving end..
I think the chart does show interest as his signifier Mercury is in Cancer, in reception to Moon (my secondary) and exalts Jupiter. Likewise, when Mercury moves into Leo soon, it will form a conjunction to Jupiter so that to me shows a 'coming together'. His secondary signifer Sun is in Leo though, so maybe its ego. Separating conjunction from Jupiter probably shows I felt 'egoed' by the sudden cold act. He is probably doing it to protect his ego or sense of self? Idk...

Several months ago I applied for a government payment scheme after an accident I had. The first chart I cast suggested I would get the payment in 3 units of time, as I am Jupiter, and Govt Money is 11th House, (venus) applying a sextile to Jupiter. It has past 3 months, and decision was rejected. I appealed, and upon waiting for the decision, I cast another chart (this is around 5 months after the first chart was cast and appeal been made). Again, there is an applying aspect of the 11th House ruler of Govt Money, Mercury to my. signifier Venus. Likewise the Moon is applying to a sextile to Venus, my signifier. I recieved the decision again and they didn't accept my appeal.

There is one final appeal I can request, but before I do that, I am just genuinely confused why the charts seem to show an affirmative result when the case has been the opposite. It is making me lose faith in horary practice.

Please review the respective charts attached and tell me what you think.

First chart is the white background one with Jupiter rising, the second is with Libra rising.

Thanks